I used that scenario to illustrate a few points:
1) My playing ball in the house was analogous to a girl having sex. For a long time, there were no consequences. Then, something bad happened (breaking the vase = getting pregnant). Now, I have to face the consequence. The whipping was analogous to being pregnant. Because of my bad choices and ill behavior, I now have to live with my choices.
2) Nine years later equates to x months later. In the second paragraph, I decide to take it out on your mother, who was completely innocent in all this, and kill her. Heinously, I might add, by ripping her apart. I equate a "woman's choice" with "my choice" to take an innocent life. Neither of us wants to accept the consequences of our bad actions and choices. We blame someone innocent and take it out on them.
3) I used the term "b!tch" for your mother. I could have used a ton of other words also - *****, slut, etc. - to illustrate this point: WORDS MATTER!
The left wants to use euphemisms like fetus, mass of cells, etc. to deflect from what it really is - the taking of a human life. By using those euphemisms, like I used ***** (which I mean no disrespect, just want to illustrate a point) you devalue a human life. That makes it easier to reconcile the fact that one is taking the life of another when if you can place no value on them. Same way the Nazis acted against the Jews. Didn't recognize their humanity, saw them as vermin that made life more difficult, and therefore they needed extinguished. Then there were the collaborators who didn't actually participate but generally accepted that it was ok because that was the German government's choice. Really no different than those that kill their children and those that believe that it is ok here in America.