I am so sorry for your loss Kev. My mom has stage 4 cancer and I fear the day that I have to make a similar post. I'm going through a rough time myself at the moment with some things and haven't been posting in a while. We differ on opinions some times but moments like this remind us that it's just a silly game. You've a BBN brother right here and I'll be praying for you and yours.
Really sorry to hear that you're Mom is going thru this. I know the feelings that you're experiencing.
One minute you may feel normal, then the next minute you might find yourself in tears.
I made sure to tell my Mom that I loved her every time I saw her after her diagnosis. She knew that anyway, but I wasn't letting it go unsaid. My mother in law passed away In September. She was almost like a Mom to me also. She also went thru hell.
As far as our disagreements on this board, it's mostly all in fun as far as I'm concerned. BBN is kind of like family, at times we argue, bicker, and get on each other's nerves. But I bet most of us would get along just fine in person.
I'll be praying for your Mom and family.
If you're interested in talking to someone, I would be more than happy to. Take care, and remember, don't leave anything on the table before she goes, because you won't get a do over.