I've had this discussion, and I'm with ya.
Bring mom to court and lie to the judge? That's a good one!!
"We Are Penn State A-holes!!"
I agree, but until the laws change, society needs to abide by them.
As to the OP subject, the 19 year old was in violation of the law. I get it, it's a tailgate, we did it as college students, etc. It's a much different society today. Litigation and liability are huge issues in this world. Add in social media and the problem magnifies. People here want police officers to use discretion and allow responsible underage drinkers to continue, but then bring the hammer down on rowdier ones. What about the grey area in between? Give half tickets, and spare the other 50%? When an underage drinker gets injured or causes harm, then witnesses and/or cell phone recorded evidence shows the cops were there, but did nothing. Who is responsible? If Penn State used some sort of discretionary tactics like that when policing/reprimanding fraternities for underage drinking, are they in some way responsible for Mike Piazza's death? That does take it to the extremes, but that is what's faced when turning your cheek the other way when under age drinking is involved in a public arena.