Question on that last point- if you went to a large, diverse high school in NJ, is going to a school out of state, that albeit may be less diverse, give one a different and therefore diverse experience?
"My high school had too many kinds of people, I want fewer perspectives" is definitely a new one but sadly is probably not far from the truth. I actually think my HS had some people like that, and by NJ standards, and by that era, it was somewhat diverse but not very. But it'd be extremely diverse to most of the country.
I really struggle with the idea that NJ (or SoCal) has simply too much culture so I want to go to an area with a monoculture. I mean there's terms for that...and none of them are very nice or positive...
