For me, I get upset when Duke looses to a team that I feel they should beat. When you were born and raised in the State of North Carolina, majority of fans are either Cheat or Blue Devil fans, who loves to talk smack. With that comes a huge amount of disappointment when Duke loose for me. I don't mind losing to a great team, but still have a hard time processing how we loose to teams that we are just clearly better than. But I keep that to myself and not post.
I've been around long enough to know that we as human's all react different to losing. Some loose their mind during the game while it's still going on, and then turn around and praise the same person they just finished bashing a few minutes ago or throughout the game. I myself post here as well as the premium board when a lot of poster start blaming one person when it's clearly evident that it's more then that. I can stomach losing after the initial hair pulling episode, but always had a hard time watching or hearing people blaming one person on a TEAM loss.
For all the talk you see here about people only coming around when Duke loose, well some still come around and complain even when Duke wins. At the end of the day, after I get over my few minutes of complaining about our loss, to my poor wife lol, reality kicks in and I realize it's just a game and have faith that the next time, Duke will play better. I think about my career and if it had played out at least 2 days a week on national tv for everybody to view and give their advice about what I didn't or should have done. With some of those voicing their opinion and never even participated in the exact thing they are going off about.
At the end of the day, these young men and their families committed to Duke for how ever many months or years they are here. So during that time, even though I get pissed at the team, I try my best to support them in the most positive way I can during their time. We all make mistakes, these Duke players mistakes are just shown for the everybody to judge.