I made this thread for a friend of mine to prove a point. He's been through the ringer with women, and can never land any really good ones despite the fact that he's a good dude. He has literally no game. He is getting good at meeting women, but he lands in the friend zone every time with his nice guy, approval-seeking behavior. He's convinced there is too much competition for the gorgeous women that he "really" wants so he finds himself lowering his standards as well. I'm trying to show him how there's really not much real competition, and honestly, I've found that the reeeealllly super hot beautiful women who most men wont even approach are the easiest to get dates with. But they wont go for a guy who wants to please her right away and fawn all over her. Women need to chase, period, Its in their DNA. Even if they say they dont, they still crave having to chase and work for a man.
The 4 questions I listed are some of the most common ways women test men in the beginning of a potential relationship. Mostly early in the dating game, and often times they will test you the first time you meet them or go out with them. Most of the time the better of a catch they really are, the harder they will test you. Most guys fail these super bad and end up having no idea why she lost interest or friend zoned him. What they really want is for you to pass those tests with a positive and friendly attitude. They "want" you to be able to say no, and do it in a way that shows respect. It shows her you have self confidence. When she insults you or disagree's with something you say, it actually means shes interested, but she wants to see how you handle yourself. If you show any un-comfort, or try to seek her approval or anything like that, you failed. They really dont want a guy who's willing to drop everything and do a bunch of favors for her, or agree with everything they say --in fact not at all. Then she has nothing to work for. No mystery, just boring. Also the more safe a women feels with you, the more feminine she can be. If she seems to show some turn on a dime attitude out of the blue early on in the dating process, its usually not that she's crazy or anything actually quite the opposite. She testing you and just wants to see how you handle yourself and how confident you are. The jealousy test is another very common test most men fail.
atlkvb, you are obviously a good dude with a good heart, but most women would not see you as much of a challenge to them lol, and are more likely to put you in the friend zone.
Dvldog 4WVU's attitude would land more ladies.....