Agree. By its nature, baseball is the most individualistic of the team sports. In say basketball, if the point guard hates the power forward there could be problems. But in baseball, if the catcher hates the right fielder, who cares?In baseball, I don't believe you have to be a close knit group. Just do your job. It is very different than other sports. You could have your teammate you hate the most on second base and your feelings about him don't matter and can have zero effect on your own task at hand which is to get a hit and have him score.
And I think in a very dysfunctional way, those Met's of the 80's were a lot closer than many of the feel good nice guy teams out there. We all know they made the playoffs in 86 & 88 but to many disappointments, missed the playoffs in 84/85/87/89/90 but if there was a wildcard team, they would have made it in 84/85/87/90 and the 89 team would have missed by 1 game. That is a hell of a run for any team.
We can never compete with the Yankees history. And now 90's and early 2000's are "History"...We are now a decade past anything significant the Yankees have done. And in the last decade, only 1 NY team made the WS.
Yankees are still much better run, they have a great minor league system and money to spend and they do spend it. But over the last decade, you really don't own a lot of bragging rights. Always good enough to either make the playoffs or come very close. But never good enough to be the last team standing. We can't brag for losing the WS in 2015 but that means you Yankee fans have nothing to brag about either as you spend the money and can't even lose the last baseball game of the year...
That is why I think "chemistry" in baseball is WAY overrated. I am much more concerned about physics - the physics of hitting and throwing the ball.