Easy to say when it hasn't happened to you. Go talk to someone who has been raped and ask them this question.
I can cite thousands of women who have done that very thing. Rejected settlements or testified simply to stop it.
no one knows what happened with Kobe and her. What we know for a fact is that she was being sexual with Kobe, and he was in return. The rest is pure speculation. Even medical examiners cannot always pin point sexual assault from rough sex.
I have despised Kobe for much of my life. I’m not a fan of professional athletes in general, especially the narcissistic and victimized elitist liars of the NBA club, so I have no love lost to be honest. But the middle ground on this case is we don’t know. And anyone pretending they do is just picking sides for personal reasons.