Do you ever wish you were in a football conference? I mean, I know in years like this when you're a contender to win it all it's probably not a big deal, and you possibly revel in how special you are as the year-in and year-out elite independent, but it's also fun to be part of a conference race, to have the same rivals every year and watch other games that have an impact on your season.
NU fans are going to be watching Purdue-Iowa this Saturday with a huge amount at stake for the Wildcats. ND doesn't really get to experience that. That's a really fun part of being a football fan.
If you want the thread back on track, I am an alum of both ND and NU (also younger, to the earlier person’s point).
It’s almost inconceivable to ND fans that pay attention to the football program that it’d be confined to a conference. It goes to the very core of the identity of the fan base in a way that’s difficult to convey - kind of like how Alabama football has been a point of pride for the entire state in a small poor Southern state perceived as backwards for a hundred years.
I don’t know how much you know about the history of the Big Ten and ND, but the Big Ten’s black balling (largely led by Michigan) of ND was the best thing that ever happened to the program. It forceably established the identity of the program as a national program and is still fundamental to how the program views the world.
Conference titles are great, but it’s not the end-all, be-all for me or many fans. Interesting and national schedules, great rivalries (with SC and Navy and to a lesser extent Stanford), memorable games and series (Miami, FSU, and so forth), etc., etc. are just as important. It’s just not in the DNA of the fan base to care about conference regalia.
The relatively new playoff structure actually helps ND in this regard. ND has been in contention pretty deep into the season for three of the five years, and that’s even after a loss. It maintains fan interest and still enforces that ND has something for which to play.