Travel ball sounds miserable. Thankfully I grew up in a city that had a badass Catholic School League.
This is exactly what is happening, and while I do apologize, the league is located in the prestigious 40502 zip code so I do get a lot of enjoyment in the skullcrushings.I mean the “our team plays together in 4 different leagues and just came here to mash in this rec league” crowd isn’t much better
I'm with you.I don’t understand the fuss about participation trophies. We got them every season for whatever sport we were playing, but it didn’t impact negatively in the least. In 4th grade we lost the city soccer championship in a big upset. We got a second place trophy. Nobody was like, “sweet, a second place trophy, I feel better now.”
And for young kids - at least my daughters - they’re not going to try one ounce harder in whatever sport they do to get a first place trophy just because there isn’t a participation trophy for the kids who don’t win.
Think Kindly was in Playboy Slovenia last month.
My rude awakening was realizing the number of these travel teams (sports, gymnastics, all of it) that do the fundraisers, panhandling outside Wal-Mart, etc. Up until a few years ago, I mistakenly thought those were school teams. I had no clue travel parents were raising money to support their kids going to these places (or pay their coaches or entry fees or whatever).
I'm with you.
If anything is diminishing kids competitiveness (and I'm not sure that it is), it is the parents pushing this damn travel ball year around whether it be soccer, basketball, baseball, etc. There typically is a winner but there is no real season, no finality, no lasting pride. Lose ===> oh well, we go to E Town next weekend, everybody make sure to attend your mandatory daily 3 hour practice! Win ====> good job! We go to E Town next weekend, everybody make sure to attend your mandatory daily 3 hour practice!
If you won a county championship or your particular region in youth sports 20 years ago it was a lasting accomplishment, typically you had your name on a plaque or a large trophy displayed for everyone to see...now it's just "here is your piece of plastic too bad no one knows you won except your parents and their facebook friends they can now brag to which is the only reason this travel league exists in the first place".
It's our generation that is screwing the whole thing up...these kids aren't running things.
my MoR was conferred to me in Detroit. BATTLES, SON
KY State Quick Recall Championship.
EAD boat.
The "everybody gets a trophy!" whining from anyone under the age of 70 is pure effing nonsense. They've done that as long as I've been alive.