Graduated from University of Maryland.
My friend, you don't want to go there. I'm retired. Served from 1971 until 1996 and then spent 9 years as contract employee. 34 years....is that good enough for you.
I earned my promotion to officer ranks from dedication and service. I knew way to many graduates of "military academies " who could not wait for their active duty to be done with and during their time in the ranks they were too book smart and could never grasp what their actual responsibilities were.
Plus, during that time period (middle sixties) so many officers right out of the academy went right to combat zones and were not good leaders. The ones that never left the states had connections to keep them home similar to those who got deferments to avoid service.
The only reason you have more years of service to this country than I do is because you're older. Don't take that the wrong way though, I greatly appreciate your service to our country.
I come from a family of military service. Both of my grandfathers served in combat roles, one on WWll and the other in the Vietnam War. 2 of my uncles enlisted when they were 18. One only served 5 years, the other served for 33 and retired as a full bird colonel with multiple deployments to the Middle East. He is currently contracted as head of security for a Lockheed Martin facility in Texas and has been there for over 5 years. His son, my cousin, just graduated pilot training with the Air Force and he has no plans of early retirement.
I myself went to the Air Force Academy straight out of HS for a year and half. I was told my eyes weren't good enough to fly (my biggest dream growing up was to fly fighter jets, specifically the F-22, Lance Sijan is also a hero of mine), so I left, finished college (for mom) and went to my second dream- firefighting. I'm still training (paramedic one because we're a joint EMS provider as well) but I ultimately plan to be a smoke jumper out west.
I'm sorry you had a bad experience with some "ring knockers" but the military academies produce high quality officers (not saying coach K was one), which is why a majority of our military's leadership graduated from an academy.