Coaching has changed. No longer should you feel scared of your coach, or should a coach ever put his hands on the players. I fully agree with the change.
If you recruit and coach the right way, you will not have to motivate kids all the time, and you certainly will not have to put a hand on them. Recruit a kid that can play well, has a good support system, and who values an Education. You will spend your practices passing the ball, not throwing it at your kids.
If you are the kind of coach t hat says "This player is just okay now, but maybe I can teach him to be a madman in the paint, toughen him up, make sure he gets so much more physical" you are wasting a recruit.
Derrick Randel averaged close to nothing in college in terms of stats. Why was he even brought here?