And there are definitely plenty of high school girls that will aggressively go after a young male teacher. The vast majority of them won't, but if 1 in 50 will, that means even at pretty small schools, there is at least 1, and at decent sized schools, you're talking about 2 or 3. I did not go to a big school and there were a good number of coaches that would flirt with coaches. One of them would would be really aggressive, and I think it was more about validation than wanting anything to actually happy, but I would not have entirely faulted one of the coaches for being dumb enough to make a move on her given the signals she was putting out.
You should absolutely fully fault the Coach for being dumb enough to make a move on an underage teenage student.
There must be no scenario where a coach or teacher is ever even partially let off the hook for making moves on an underage teenage student.
The student's behavior is reported to administration and documented.
That is the only correct way to handle a student that is acting inappropriately.
There must never be a time when a coach puts moves on an underage teenage student and society thinks “well you can’t totally blame him because she wanted it“.
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