You talkin' to me?
First of all, it is impossible to pitch a no-no and still lose. A "no-no", at least as originally defined, means no hits, no runs. It is impossible to give up no runs and lose.
As far as pitching a no-hitter and lose, that has officially happened once before. In 1964, Ken Johnson of the old Houston Colt 45's (try using that name nowadays!) threw a nine inning no hitter, but lost 1-0. There have been other instances of eight inning no-hitter losses (because there was no bottom of the ninth), and combined no-hitter losses, but these are not considered official no hitters.
And while we're on the topic (anything to distract us from the current team) do you know it is possible to pitch a 10 inning PERFECT GAME and lose? This is thanks to the ghost runner rule. Runner begins the inning on second, advances to third on the first out, scores on the second out. Pitcher retires all 30 batters to face him, and still loses. Now THAT could only happen to the Mets!