I'll try to bring it back.Sure, but I took the time to type a lot of thoughts that were genuine and I think explains where at least many on the left are coming from. And rather than engage, you took the word choice, shared a politician on the left from an area I don’t live in, who I honestly know nothing about, and basically changed the subject. I just hate having to try to answer for people I don’t support all the time. It’s exhausting and often a distraction from actual discussion and issues. I can research, find the likely nuance in the situation, likely I don’t agree with a lot, and then there will be another ridiculous politician somewhere in this huge nation I’m asked to speak for. I see ridiculous politicians on the right all the time on my algorithm. I don’t ask you or others to explain them unless they are someone people have shown explicit support for. It is not productive.
I agree 100% about poor parents....and I'm a product (like many on here probably)..mother and father, 6 siblings, blue collar, traditional family father worked, mother stayed home (otherwise we probably would have murdered one or two of the siblings). Extended family was also "poor", example, my grandmother's goal was to have enough money saved so that she could pay for her burial without being a burden to her children...she was close, but didn't make it.
But here was what I'll call "the difference" between us and a lot of parents...well first of all I had 2...also, my father was an immigrant - he loved this country - and he was convinced that the way forward in life was through education. He insisted on it,,,put all of us in private schools K-8. But we couldn't afford it. He worked two jobs for as long as I can remember..left for work about 6am, got home about 5:30pm, dinner at 6-6:30, then 6:30-7 he took a nap, then off to a second job....The man was disciplined. My mother was the same....
We had divorce back then, but I didn't know anybody who was actually divorced. I guess it was frowned upon..Children out or marriage? Whooo what a scandal. Girls went away for a year, we all knew where they went. Some married the father. Those that didn't somehow got support for their baby, courts demanded it.
Somewhere along the way we seemed to have lost the plot. Now a single parent family is not uncommon and there are statistics showing that 30-40% of single parent families experience poverty...so the children start off behind the 8ball. Think of this, back when I was young, we didn't have the war on poverty...there were none of the social safety nets we have now..maybe that made a difference.
I guess my key point. For me, and my siblings, the greatest gift of our lives was having two parents who loved us, cared for us, disciplined us, and sacrificed for us. Those who don't have that, IMO, have a much harder time in life.
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