How much worse can it get? Attended a boys high school BB game a couple weeks ago ….maybe 350 in attendance in a gym that holds around 1500. The home student section max about 80-90 and this was a contest between two large class SD schools (enrollment 1000+) - a quick occasional glance and you notice a substantial number occupied by their I-phones. Neither team highly ranked but still.
I only attended because my son is in the pep band (about 25strong) and most of them left when they could at the start of the 4th quarter.
No, you are right. That's where we are.
I still think it can get worse...
Just my opinion here but I'm VERY afraid of being overrun by club sports at the high school level. So many club coaches promise the world to these kids, they can pick their own teams, "get" to travel every weekend to play "elite" teams, have posters and banners made, host media days, "win" national tournaments (6th division but who is counting, it's a title), will get them D1 schollys (but never offer to pay full tuition if they can't), tell them colleges don't care about their school carrers, and talk down about their school coaches, programs, teammates, etc...
At many big schools, club teams are operating year round. We have had athletes in my program that were told if they play in a school basketball (winter) and soccer (spring) game over a volleyball practice then they would be ineligible for a national tournament. This has happened in junior high and high school. Big schools are seeing kids on club teams on varsity, JV and JV2 levels and all have been told they deserve more. I hear it in my classroom. I hear the comments of "favoritism" all the time as an excuse that they just aren't better. That, of course, leads to transfers instead of hard work to earn a spot.
Why all this matters to the original point...
A- kids are caring more about their club right now than school sports and representing their school, classmates, and community.
B- if the school and community continue to not care, what is holding school sports together? In the world of transfers, kids will leave at any time with no sense of loyalty to anyone but themselves.
C- with budgets strained as they are, the conversation is just starting to scratch the surface in the school sports world about how long we can hold on this way.
D- The "me first" attitude is clearly prevalent in these kids lives. Your experience is a prime example. Our band kids leave right after half time, too. I get mad when I see them all take off but I also get the idea that if they don't get the athletes at their concerts, why would they stay for their sports?
Sorry, really long rant. I'm trying to fix this stuff and our school is doing stuff too. We have our programs athletes going to elementary schools to play with kids and talk about our program. We have a bunch of athletes going to read to kids and "buddy" with others that have behavior issues but love sports. That idea came from our AD and I think it is great.