Wow. Stafford.

ZaneHickey

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By all accounts, Stafford seems like a genuine nice stand up classy guy. What say we give him a pass under the circumstances and as above poster mentioned, WTH is he going to be able to do to help a women who just broke her back...and did I read he's paying all her medical bills? Very stand up move IMO.

I can sort of relate to the story as I was once blasted by a car that was doin 50nph on a bike ride. I flew like Superman and landed on concrete and was busted up from head to toe. Some idiot gets out of her car and turns me over thinking she was helping. Freaking ouch.
Paying for her treatment was unavoidable, IMO. It helps his image about as much as pulling a handful of 100's out of his pocket and tossing them down to her. He must have been super tanked, if he is considered a swell guy, otherwise. Glad I am not his PR guy.
 

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Dude you made a joke about women have a genetic predisposition to not looking behind them.. so I played off your joke to include women not checking behind them when sitting on the toilet seat to make sure it’s down.

Then you got all high and mighty on me.. very strange behavior.
 

inthedeed

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Dude you made a joke about women have a genetic predisposition to not looking behind them.. so I played off your joke to include women not checking behind them when sitting on the toilet seat to make sure it’s down.

Then you got all high and mighty on me.. very strange behavior.
and you go into your usual name calling routine. tourettes?
 

steinek11

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1. It was not his fault
2. He turned around because it was weird to see and he was starting to laugh, which face it, is natural.
3. Paying for it is pretty cool of him.
This is true. Things can be super funny when you're drunk. As she falls backwards, there's no way he's thinking about her being seriously injured. He's just perceiving a fall or trip.

When I was 12 or 13, I was playing wiffle ball with some friends. It's kind of a grassy area with loose gravel. I was rounding first base, lost my footing and went down hard on some gravel and got scraped up pretty good. One of my friends thought it was hilarious and laughed his head off. I was pissed and got up and started to slug him which was very perplexing to him.
 

DrAlan_Grant

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Stop being so hard on him. He was probably fight of flight, and probably hammered.

Can't say what I would have done, but there is certainly a possibility I would have done the same. Not on me to judge him. Plus he is at least helping to pay for all her medical bills. Seems like a nice dude. Everyone should just back off honestly.
 

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Anybody who thinks less of him is an idiot and hypocrite. Would YOU cover her bills for her or the building crews mistake?? Stand up dude who the camera didn't fully capture the human condition we all suffer from in his reaction.
 

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Agree. I think the last few days have been a little fuzzy for most of those guys. Not a good excuse but an excuse..lol. his wife along withhis p.r. team and the RAMS are taking care of the lady's medical bills and her photography equipment. She has gofund me account as well that is up to 42k.
Fixed it for you.
 

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Seems like he could have shown some basic human regard for the misfortune of another. I don’t know if Stanford is an a**hole or not, but his reaction here is pretty much the definition of self centered a**hole behavior.
i think you've answered your own question if he's an ******* or not. ANSWER: 100% *******.

As Deadspin also said:

Being drunk three days after the greatest professional achievement of your life doesn’t excuse being an ******* or lacking basic empathy. And that’s a terrible look for Stafford, whose stardom in the Los Angeles sports scene is only growing. That’s how he treats a local photographer who works with the team he leads? Do better Matt.
 
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I know when I'm on the fence about something I akways ask myself, "How does Deadspin feel about it"? Unbelievable some people's reaction to this. I wonder what the world would be like if we extended more grace to each other when they need it, and offered to help people when they need it, like Matt is doing in the aftermath here. You'd think by some people's reaction he was the reason she fell...like he pushed her.
 

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All I got out of this is. If you don't pay attention to what your doing and fall off of a stage and hurt yourself. Everybody else is responsible for your actions and recovery. Its a unfortunate painful lesson of pay attention to your surrounding. People act like stafford pushed her off.
 

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i think you've answered your own question if he's an ******* or not. ANSWER: 100% *******.

As Deadspin also said:

Being drunk three days after the greatest professional achievement of your life doesn’t excuse being an ******* or lacking basic empathy. And that’s a terrible look for Stafford, whose stardom in the Los Angeles sports scene is only growing. That’s how he treats a local photographer who works with the team he leads? Do better Matt.
Deadspin writer is a total millennial. This is not that big of deal and no one really cares. He's not the cause of her being clumsy. He stepped up and made situation better despite coming across as uncaring. We don't get to question his motives. End of story. Bigger question is, can the Rams repeat?
 

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I guess my disappointment(beyond the obvious bad injury)...is WHY DO YOU HAVE TO GET DRUNK???? YOU DID NOT CURE CANCER!!!!!!!!!!!

(Can you tell I'm not a drinker?)
 

TampaBaySkers

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i think you've answered your own question if he's an ******* or not. ANSWER: 100% *******.

As Deadspin also said:

Being drunk three days after the greatest professional achievement of your life doesn’t excuse being an ******* or lacking basic empathy. And that’s a terrible look for Stafford, whose stardom in the Los Angeles sports scene is only growing. That’s how he treats a local photographer who works with the team he leads? Do better Matt.
He should of stayed in Detroit. He never would have to worry about being drunk after wining the super bowl.
 

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Stop being so hard on him. He was probably fight of flight, and probably hammered.

Can't say what I would have done, but there is certainly a possibility I would have done the same. Not on me to judge him. Plus he is at least helping to pay for all her medical bills. Seems like a nice dude. Everyone should just back off honestly.
he's only offered to pay medical bills after the avalanche of comments about how much of an a-hole he is/was.
 

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he's only offered to pay medical bills after the avalanche of comments about how much of an a-hole he is/was.
Honestly, the fact you are supporting her really shows how racist you are. Everyone in this thread that was supporting her are now racists.
 

cornhead1

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Honestly, the fact you are supporting her really shows how racist you are. Everyone in this thread that was supporting her are now racists.
I'm not supporting anyone, the issue here is Stafford turning his back on a women that could have been injured. At least walk over and appear concerned. WTF - that is just being a normal person
 

egaRdeR

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I'm not supporting anyone, the issue here is Stafford turning his back on a women that could have been injured. At least walk over and appear concerned. WTF - that is just being a normal person
Just as expected. The girl ends up being racist and you distance yourself from her.
 

egaRdeR

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You may want to a take a timeout.
Dude, I am enjoying this entire thing way too much to take a time out.

1) I don't know you in any way to call you a racist. I am just being a complete a$$
2) This entire thing is just hilarious. Look at how quickly things changed. Some girl fell and had the sympathy of every judgmental jacka$$ around. The poor girl. Then 24 hours and poof, she is an awful person. What a ride!
C) People just need to quit overreacting. Everything is so extreme. Not everyone that said stupid **** 10 years ago is a worthless racist. Not every drunk jock that doesn't don a cape to save a fallen lady is a self centered a$$hole,
4) Please don't take me pointing any of this directly at you. You were just the last judgmental poster in the thread.

Way too many people have gotten soft, pathetic, self absorbed, and judgmental. People just need to worry about themselves.
 

cornhead1

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Dude, I am enjoying this entire thing way too much to take a time out.

1) I don't know you in any way to call you a racist. I am just being a complete a$$
2) This entire thing is just hilarious. Look at how quickly things changed. Some girl fell and had the sympathy of every judgmental jacka$$ around. The poor girl. Then 24 hours and poof, she is an awful person. What a ride!
C) People just need to quit overreacting. Everything is so extreme. Not everyone that said stupid **** 10 years ago is a worthless racist. Not every drunk jock that doesn't don a cape to save a fallen lady is a self centered a$$hole,
4) Please don't take me pointing any of this directly at you. You were just the last judgmental poster in the thread.

Way too many people have gotten soft, pathetic, self absorbed, and judgmental. People just need to worry about themselves.
A lot of judgment for someone concerned about judgment, but that's ok.
So you're cool with his original reaction?
 

egaRdeR

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A lot of judgment for someone concerned about judgment, but that's ok.
So you're cool with his original reaction?
Holy fook dude.

I have no way to know what his mind was thinking. Or if it was at all.

Honestly it just doesn't matter to me one way or another.
 

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I’m not judging this dude because of this video. This video is just more reinforcement of my original judgment

and spare me “he’s writing a check”. He is writing that check so he can later get bigger checks. His wife is a good person. She was trying to raise the money herself even before the video leaked. The fact that Kelly was trying to raise the money tells you that Matt originally wasn’t going to pay ****. Matt picked up the tab after the video leak. That’s basically just him paying a celebrity fine

and yes, he’s a D-bag. I know people who know him and Kid K. They all say the same thing. Matt’s a D-bag and Clayton is a good dude
 
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Now she's going to be getting canceled.

It’s sad that the Rams and the NFL are digging up dirt on some chick to hide the fact that Matt Stafford is an *******.

her verbiage is likely being taken out of context if you think this is hateful. No hard R. Doesn’t make it right but doesn’t make her a racist. Just makes her stupid for using that word
 

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Deadspin writer is a total millennial. This is not that big of deal and no one really cares. He's not the cause of her being clumsy. He stepped up and made situation better despite coming across as uncaring. We don't get to question his motives. End of story. Bigger question is, can the Rams repeat?
I'm not sure what he was supposed to do. He's not a Dr. It was a Super Bowl CELEBRATION. Of course he was plastered.

So an obnoxious free lance photographer is in his wife's and his face and falls over backwards..... Even IF he saw her go down, I'll cut him some slack.
 
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dinglefritz

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I’m not judging this dude because of this video. This video is just more reinforcement of my original judgment

and spare me “he’s writing a check”. He is writing that check so he can later get bigger checks. His wife is a good person. She was trying to raise the money herself even before the video leaked. The fact that Kelly was trying to raise the money tells you that Matt originally wasn’t going to pay ****. Matt picked up the tab after the video leak. That’s basically just him paying a celebrity fine

and yes, he’s a D-bag. I know people who know him and Kid K. They all say the same thing. Matt’s a D-bag and Clayton is a good dude
LOL. Why exactly should he pay ANYTHING? He wasn't the clutzy paparazzi photographer who shouldn't have been up on that stage in the first place. You've already admitted that you don't like Stafford so we'll judge your assessment of the situation appropriately.
 

dinglefritz

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Stop being so hard on him. He was probably fight of flight, and probably hammered.

Can't say what I would have done, but there is certainly a possibility I would have done the same. Not on me to judge him. Plus he is at least helping to pay for all her medical bills. Seems like a nice dude. Everyone should just back off honestly.
You can literally read his lips. He says OH MY GOD and turns away not wanting to look at her. I do that when they replay horrific injuries during sporting events. I don't want to look at it. So his wife runs to look at the car wreck and he turns away. Big deal. There was nothing he could do to help that woman at that point from that stage.
 

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LOL. Why exactly should he pay ANYTHING? He wasn't the clutzy paparazzi photographer who shouldn't have been up on that stage in the first place. You've already admitted that you don't like Stafford so we'll judge your assessment of the situation appropriately.
A) I didn’t say he was required to pay anything. Stop assuming.

B) can you use common sense? If not I’ll spell it out for you. Athletes, especially QBs that just won the super bowl, get paid by endorsements. Companies will be hesitant to pay endorsement money to people that come across as bad guys in the public eye. Him paying her hospital bills are what they call damage control. If you can’t see that, I have no words

Be Matt’s # 1 fan. I don’t care. This is a message board for one to post their opinion. If I offended you cause I don’t like Matt Stafford, then I’m sorry.