Select the one that most aligns with your fandom.
I used to care deeply, I would break furniture after a UK loss. In the past, I would stand and pace while watching the games. After 2015 Wisconsin something changed in me. I stopped caring as much. That game is not the only factor, but is one of many.
One and done - players first - UK fan base mentality of who cares about winningest team. It’s just a number. It fluctuates and we might get it back one day. None and done is acceptable if it happens. It’s a regular season game, it’s not that important. We’ll get them in the SEC tournament. I expected a loss today. We’re a football school now. Basketball doesn’t start till UK’s last football game and then I’ll pay attention.
This season, I have really started caring again. I really like the players on this team and I see great potential for them. Also, I can tell I care because all the things I mentioned above are really irking me right now. For me, I can tell I’m caring about this team because everything is ticking me off. I am a very sore loser when I care. When I’m nonchalant, I’m not near as negative. I want UK to win it all. I don’t want to lose the all time wins. I don’t want to hear excuses about injuries. Instead, I want us to find ways to overcome obstacles and get the win. In 2015 we were going for undefeated 40-0 to make history. I want that level of excitement and passion back regardless if it’s rational or not. Also, no matter the talent, UK will never achieve true greatness again unless they develop that same passion. When Oscar talked about “die to win”. That is what gets me believing again.
I also get they’re not robots. The players do have limitations and injuries do effect games. My dilemma is rational thoughts don’t win out when I’m in die hard mode. Right now I’m at a crossroads with my fandom. Do I care so deeply, I let it destroy my psyche when we lose? If the challenge is harder, I expect the win even more. I know it’s not sane, but it’s where I’m at. Not sure if anyone else can relate or if I’m as crazy as I sound.