Im very respectful to women, i think my honesty about what im after shows respect...im not married & dont ever plan on making that mistake a 3rd time just dont see the need in it ...
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I can appreciate that I just think most women even if all they want is sex, want to be respected more... I'd argue even first.
This is a great question and point about the sexual taboo that women unfairly deal with. I think its unfair to label women who want to have sex but not really a long term relationship. Its 2019. Sex is natural to a lot of people. Its an unfair taboo. The men who can allow a women to be up front without fear of being judged, is turning himself into fun fk boy. Thats pretty much it.
That's why honesty is the key, literally. State your intent, and if she's down, she will let you know. The best thing to do if you want 'get in her pants' is to just make it known that you are trustworthy, and nonjudgemental. You are ok with her desires and she can be herself around you without fear of being judged. Of course thats not my game, but the sex game is a game a lot of people play. For me its about having no boundaries in meeting women, and pretty much going for the qualities I look for above all else.
In an odd sort of way that is being respectful but ironically cheapening the specialness of sexual intimacy is about the most disrespectful thing a man can do to a woman or vice versa.
My personal thought is that casual sex is not worth it or really a respectful way to treat your body and soul. Some folks can do that and it doesnt seem to bother them, but I'm not one of them. I care about my health and want to be clean, but also realize that sex is actually 100x better if its earned, legit and out of love. No doubt
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I'm proud of it lol. But dont think its because I'm some tall, dark, handsome rich guy. I'm not at all. That's kind of the whole point in this. You dont have to be. Women are more open than a lot of men think, they just have no idea to get through the road blocks.
I used to suck at this. Bad. Really bad. I took lessons, I read books, and put myself out there and its pretty much life changing lol.
Well stated.kay:
This may not be a popular thing to say on the internet, but truth be told, my salvation is through Jesus Christ. I'm a believer and always will be. Without Christianity in my life I'd be nothing. I made it a point to learn game and figure all this out, but for other reasons than sexual. It began for me about taking an insecure, shy young man and building my confidence so I could just stop worrying about what everyone thinks and live the way I wanted to. That wasnt something I was born with lol. I worked my butt off to get rid of that side of myself.
Once again well stated. The beauty in what you said is that once Christ becomes the focus of your life there isn't any more need for you to lack confidence in who you are or not be able to play your "game".
Awesome post!
I couldnt do it alone, thats for sure lol. The knowledge, the gains, its all because I wanted to be the man I read about in the Bible. The leader. The man of the household.
