Well if names of sources (which of course would lead to them no longer being sources since things are told under the assumption of anonymity) are what you require, then I won't be able to make you happy.
Everyone has a right to their opinion no doubt. Some opinions are more informed than others and thus I tend to give them more credibility. If you don't think mine is in that category, that is your right.
I have no doubt that coaches used that against us, so believe your statement. But as you noted, it wasn't the sole reasoning for it. I don't believe it actually cost us any recruit, no more than the other years when coaches use things like "he will recruit over you", "he's going to the NBA", "UK fans are crazy", etc.
Cal platooned for half a season and only because he was forced to do so, this is not his style as the other 20 years of his coaching career shows. He assumed 2-4 of the guys would have left and they came back. So guys played less minutes but they played. You know what would have been even worse for us in recruiting? Coaches saying "look at that, Ullis, Booker, and Lyles only played 5 minutes a game because Cal wouldn't get them in, he cost them a lot of exposure and money."
If the recruits aren't smart enough to see the extremely unique situation for this past year, then whatever. I think it's more the NBA talk than anything, and this was just a different class. Newman made sense because he wanted to play PG, he wasn't doing that here. Diallo went to another elite school who puts guys in NBA too, it happens.
Brown and Zimmerman only ones who made poor decisions IMO for their branding, I think it has more to do with everything that comes with playing here. Both had UK and low-profile schools where they won't be in the spotlight 24/7...again this place isn't for everyone.