Indeed, Lanier was a great guy. Back when the Nets played at the RAC I met him a few times.
Get a load of this memorable story... before a Nets/Pistons game, my friends and I were in the lobby of the Marriott in Somerset to get some autographs. The Pistons were staying there. As could be expected, we wanted Lanier's autograph the most. All the players, coaches, and staff walked through the lobby and then outside to the team bus...except Lanier. The bus left for the RAC without Lanier. We figured he must have made other arrangements to get to the arena. We were disappointed not to see him.
However, a few minutes after the bus leaves, Lanier comes down from his room. We tell him the bus left without him. He replied, paraphrasing, "You gotta be kidding!" We were all going to the game after leaving the hotel. My friends (brothers Jim and Chris), asked Lanier if he wanted a ride in their car to the arena. He said, "Absolutely." So they drove Lanier to the RAC. Lanier was known for being a chain smoker. He lit up in my friends' car on the short drive. The next day, Jim, Chris, and their parents went shopping together. Jim and Chris had to explain why the car smelled like smoke...lol