BS
This is one of the largest misconceptions of American thought. We are programmed to believe this is the land of opportunity and that if you just work hard enough you can ne wealthy beyond your wildest dreams. It's just not true and only believed by those who have either 1) never been poor or 2) one of the lucky few that were exceptions to the rule.
I read an article that said it can take 300 to 450 years for a family's wealth or poverty to dissipate. That's like 5 or 6 generations.
I’m gonna have to go ahead and call BS on this. 300-450 years?!? WTF? That’s twice as old as the US. Middle class basically didn’t exist before the US. In about 250 years, hundreds of millions have entered the middle class.
I’m from a very poor area of MS. I personally know dozens of people that grew up with nothing (trailer parks, high school dropouts for parents, blue collar jobs, alcoholic parents, etc) that have gone on to be middle class and upper middle class. Some went to college, some didn’t. All of them did what they’re supposed to do (work hard, stay off of drugs and out of jail, married/kids, normal, strong sense of personal responsibility). These people are dentists (several), pediatricians, CNA’s, business owners, CPA’s, Engineers, RN’s, high paying blue collar positions, sales, upper management of companies/organizations, farmers, etc. I personally know at least one of each I listed that grew up poor.
I don’t think anyone asserts that the American dream is to be “wealthy beyond your wildest dreams”. What infomercial have you been watching? The land of opportunity, which the US is, allows you to climb out of poverty if you have any shred of personal responsibility and work ethic.
Placing the blame on ones problems anywhere but on themselves renders them helpless. It does them a disservice and needs to stop. We don’t need to perpetuate victimhood of circumstances.
“The only person who cannot be helped is that person who blames others” - Carl Rogers (influential and highly respected psychologist)