I know you had no way of knowing and were just doing internet stuff.

Thatās why I threw out the ājuniorā slight. I figured you might be a bit younger (maybe Iām off on that) and you remind me of myself. When I was about 35ish I made a mom joke about a co-worker whose mom passed away a few weeks earlier. I had no idea at the time, but I decided after that I was now too old to throw around mom jokes willy nilly.
I say some pretty fvcked up **** at times, mostly for comedic value, but I donāt joke about moms and dads anymore. (and a few other things

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