Lost my Angel

jrm693

All-Conference
Jan 14, 2007
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I with a heavy heart announce that my traveling companion and loving granddaughter passed from this life on Sunday night. On October 4 after coming home from competing in the All A State Volleyball tournament she collapsed on the floor in a game of VB we rushed her to the Murray Hospital where she was airlifted to Vanderbilt children hospital in Nashville they told us it was Lymphoma and would have to run tests to determine what kind, we requested St Judes in Memphis and was immediately transferred there. She had a large mass near her heart, they determined that it was a rapid growing form normally not found in young people called T-Cell Lymphoblastic Lymphoma they kept her in Memphis until Christmas Day and determined that the mass had all but disappeared, she then returned once a week for treatment until 5 weeks ago when she began running a fever and they discovered the mass had came back with a vengeance, they treated her with everything they knew to do, and she fought to live. Last saturday they announced that all treatments had failed and any other treatment they gave her would be fatal and asked her what she wanted to do, she said I want to go home, so we did. She passed with a UK blanket draped over given by a local bank with her name sewn into it.
She loved the Wildcats and we made countless trips(275 miles) to Rupp we were at the Elite 8 when Aaron Harrison led us to wins over UL and Michigan, we have Been to Ms St, Ole Miss, Georgia, Ark, A&M, Auburn, Alabama, Vandy and UT. WE have attended all three Final Fours under the Calipari era, we traveled to Chicago to see UK thrash Duke in the Champions Classic. I stumbled through a emotional eulogy yesterday at her funeral and told several of our experiences at these games I will share 1, When we went to UT we were 5 rows from the floor the only blue in a sea of orange, we got a big dose of Rocky Top before the game but the Cats came out hot and got a double digit lead. During the course of the game she and a little boy about her age were exchanging barbs and I suggested that we were vastly outnumbered and it might be prudent to get along, she said "I am not listening to that". Towards the end of the game Admiral Schofield got hot and Tennessee surged ahead by 8 with about a minute to go and Davy Crockett running around the court waving his musket and the band working the crowd into a frenzy playing Rocky Top over and over, I suggested we make our exit. I grabbed her hand and started out when I felt resistance from her jerking back, the boy had grabbed her by the arm and said "where are you going it is just now getting good" She fired back "I am tired of Rocky Top and dont forget you have to come to Lexington" Everyone around us roared. I loved her and am heartbroken.
 

CalCat57

Heisman
Mar 23, 2003
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I with a heavy heart announce that my traveling companion and loving granddaughter passed from this life on Sunday night. On October 4 after coming home from competing in the All A State Volleyball tournament she collapsed on the floor in a game of VB we rushed her to the Murray Hospital where she was airlifted to Vanderbilt children hospital in Nashville they told us it was Lymphoma and would have to run tests to determine what kind, we requested St Judes in Memphis and was immediately transferred there. She had a large mass near her heart, they determined that it was a rapid growing form normally not found in young people called T-Cell Lymphoblastic Lymphoma they kept her in Memphis until Christmas Day and determined that the mass had all but disappeared, she then returned once a week for treatment until 5 weeks ago when she began running a fever and they discovered the mass had came back with a vengeance, they treated her with everything they knew to do, and she fought to live. Last saturday they announced that all treatments had failed and any other treatment they gave her would be fatal and asked her what she wanted to do, she said I want to go home, so we did. She passed with a UK blanket draped over given by a local bank with her name sewn into it.
She loved the Wildcats and we made countless trips(275 miles) to Rupp we were at the Elite 8 when Aaron Harrison led us to wins over UL and Michigan, we have Been to Ms St, Ole Miss, Georgia, Ark, A&M, Auburn, Alabama, Vandy and UT. WE have attended all three Final Fours under the Calipari era, we traveled to Chicago to see UK thrash Duke in the Champions Classic. I stumbled through a emotional eulogy yesterday at her funeral and told several of our experiences at these games I will share 1, When we went to UT we were 5 rows from the floor the only blue in a sea of orange, we got a big dose of Rocky Top before the game but the Cats came out hot and got a double digit lead. During the course of the game she and a little boy about her age were exchanging barbs and I suggested that we were vastly outnumbered and it might be prudent to get along, she said "I am not listening to that". Towards the end of the game Admiral Schofield got hot and Tennessee surged ahead by 8 with about a minute to go and Davy Crockett running around the court waving his musket and the band working the crowd into a frenzy playing Rocky Top over and over, I suggested we make our exit. I grabbed her hand and started out when I felt resistance from her jerking back, the boy had grabbed her by the arm and said "where are you going it is just now getting good" She fired back "I am tired of Rocky Top and dont forget you have to come to Lexington" Everyone around us roared. I loved her and am heartbroken.

Truly a devastating and heartbreaking story. So so sorry for your loss. Life just isnt fair at times.
 

Wall2Boogie

Heisman
Jan 28, 2010
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No words op, no words. I am so sorry about your loss. She is still with you and is in good hands. She is very very brave. You have my deepest thoughts and sympathies and I pray for you and your family
 
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Jazzycat

All-Conference
May 23, 2002
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I cannot imagine losing a child or grandchild. May the Lord comfort you and your family with His love and sustain you with His peace through this time of grief. Prayers for you and for your family now and in the days to come.
 
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Catapult_rivals218351

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Dec 31, 2002
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So sorry for you and your family. Can't even imagine what you are feeling, but I firmly believe that she is in heaven and therefore in your future. I'm sure that doesn't help much right now, but I pray that the Holy Spirit will comfort you.
 
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Bungalow Bill

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Apr 8, 2007
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God bless you and your family. The loss of a child is the worst tragedy there is in this world.
 
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westerncat

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Feb 19, 2012
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OP I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Lost a child myself and I know how hard this is on you and your family. The only way my wife and I got through this was our faith in God.
I will be praying for you and your family. God bless you and your family.
 

FFWhite

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Dec 20, 2006
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Prayers to your family. It is heartbreaking to lose such a vibrant soul when they should have their whole life in front of them.
 
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ScrooDook92

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Jun 26, 2019
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Knowing for this long what was coming, didn't prepare anyone for when it got here. It never does. She is in a much better place. Thank you for sharing ❤️
 
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uky8unc5

Heisman
May 22, 2002
17,427
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JRM, if you are a man of Faith (like me), then you know there is no way to explain your loss.
God does not address "Why she is gone"...but He has revealed the "What comes next".
...Through Jesus gift of Grace, Life begins at death.
...Reunion in Heaven will be oh so sweet.
...Remember the past, but Treasure the joy of Heaven.