Just curious

WilCoDawg

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It would really depend on the situation for me. IE, was it with an Ole Miss guy? Yes! You can’t get the stank of that off.
 

Dawgpoundrock21

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Immediately!! I can forgive and work through any problem except cheating, the relationship will never be the same again regardless how much you want it too
 
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this doesn't apply to me due to not being married but I will weigh in... It would depend her income level and how much assets she had in her name. If it were another woman that was attractive i would demand a 3some
 
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I don't know....If we had kids I think I'd try and work it out for at least 2 years before pulling the plug.

If we didn't have kids it would obviously depend on how much I loved her. More than likely I'd pull the plug within a year with no kids - if not immediately.
 
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patdog

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Never been in that situation, so can't say for sure. But it's hard to imagine staying with someone who cheated on me.
 

HumpDawgy

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It would definitely change the relationship, but I would try and work through it, especially with kids involved. Of course this depends whether your spouse is in love with the other person. If that is the case, it is over no matter what.
 

HotMop

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I'd be cool with it if my wife hooked up with a hot chick.
 

Dawgbite

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How many of you on here would immediately divorce your spouse if an affair was discovered?
I did with the first one, but at the time all I had was a lot of debt and a cheating wife. After 28 years with #2, no kids, a couple of really really really nice 401Ks and a portfolio that' s going to allow me to retire soon, I would probably let him move in the house if he would promise to mow the yard occasionally.
 

IBleedMaroonDawg

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I did with the first one, but at the time all I had was a lot of debt and a cheating wife. After 28 years with #2, no kids, a couple of really really really nice 401Ks and a portfolio that' s going to allow me to retire soon, I would probably let him move in the house if he would promise to mow the yard occasionally.

Might be the best post ever on this subject.
 

ronpolk

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I wouldn’t because of my daughter. While it would suck to stay with her after that, I’d be punishing myself more by putting myself in a situation where I couldn’t see my daughter on a daily basis.
 

josebrown

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I did two years into the marriage. Had no kids, but one questionable in the oven. I gave her three strikes to try counseling and she never showed up. So that kinda told me what to do... Please no one marry a cleat chaser. I did, and learned from it...
 

BulldogBlitz

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my first wife did not have the nerve to seal the deal with the guy she was seeing on the side, so she filed for divorce from me. bounced around 5-6 guys the next half year, most from work. ended up getting her run from there.

as for me, i'm sorry, but if caught in the act, i'd be before a jury of my peers. if not caught in the act, but discovered... yeah, i'd be at an attorney's office on the sly to see how I could ensure appropriate division and custody instead of the state favored gender.
 

SPMT

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Wouldn’t want to see wealth erode. I’d probably just do whatever I wanted, let her hang around. At least I’d see the kids frequently then.

Divorce is disastrous, I’ve watched it happen with rich family. No longer rich.
 

RingN2012

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I did two years into the marriage. Had no kids, but one questionable in the oven. I gave her three strikes to try counseling and she never showed up. So that kinda told me what to do... Please no one marry a cleat chaser. I did, and learned from it...
That you, BB?