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LowCountryCat

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For me, no dog in this fight. Objectively speaking, I don't really have anything but the tape to tell or show me what happened, but I did watch the Gard/McIntosh (AD) Wisconsin press conference after the game. Gard provided the explanation about having his bench players in the game with just seconds to play but wanted to call time out to get them an additional amount of time (10 seconds vice the 4 they had to deal with after a break in play) and to get them settled so they could advance the ball past the mid-court stripe using the full 10 seconds and then let the clock run out. He instructed them not to shoot the ball.

While I except that as truth, his reasoning really is not so great for doing it with his team up 77-63 at the time. Yes, he can call time out, and yes, he does need to teach/coach his team, but up 13 with seconds to go changes things. What he did seems a bit petty and unnecessary to me, and that further fanned flames from an earlier time out call he made with less than two minutes remaining in the game. I understand you want your kids to be coached up and prepared, and to make it as easy for them to succeed as you can in all situations, but to do this at the very end of this game is taking that to an extreme. Win graciously; lose graciously.

That said, Howard needs to be a little more of an example of strength and composure to his kids. You may not like getting your *** handed to you, but you log it away and get them the next time all the while trying to get your kids to play better.

Depending on my review of the facts and what Juwan Howard tells me, if I were the Michigan AD, I would find it very difficult not to relieve him of his duties. I am almost 100% sure that this will not happen, that in today's world of tolerating more shocking and undesirable behavior, he will survive and likely be suspended for a few games.
So Howard is allowed to play to the buzzer but Gard is not. Got it, thanks.
 

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Grabbing a guy and holding him back, not letting him go, though he is clearly trying to walk away, and then angrily screaming at him IS instigating a physical altercation. Howard clearly wants NO part of any discussion right there and he's doing a blowby. You can't force a guy to stand there with you mid court in front of the whole world and have it out.

And again, I'm not excusing Howard. I'm just not laying the entire blame for the situation on him because it wasn't all his fault. If the Wisconsin coach lets Howard blow by without grabbing him, this never happens. We hear some smart aleck comments in the media room afterward from both coaches and that's it.
There are bad takes.....but congrats....this wins by a TKO....(pun intended)
 

revcort

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There are bad takes.....but congrats....this wins by a TKO....(pun intended)
How about instead of just insulting me you actually tell me what is incorrect in what I said. I'm not excusing Howard. I've said multiple times in this thread that Howard should be suspended for at least the rest of the regular season and possibly even the B10 tournament for totally losing his cool and attacking the assistant coach. The ONLY thing I'm saying here is that the Wisconsin coach isn't innocent in this. His trying to force Howard to stop and interact is what led to the rest. If you can't see that, you're either blind or biased. That's not even an opinion. Look at the video. It's all right there. Howard doing an obvious blowby and smarting off, but Gard grabbing him, turning him, and forcing a conversation. Look. At. The. Video. Open your eyes.

As for Howard, since he has lost his cool before, this may be the end for him at Michigan. He is similar in many ways to what we've seen from Penny Hardaway at Memphis, a former player with a big name who can recruit some but who hadn't shown the coaching acumen to do well at a the high D1 level.
 

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How about instead of just insulting me you actually tell me what is incorrect in what I said. I'm not excusing Howard. I've said multiple times in this thread that Howard should be suspended for at least the rest of the regular season and possibly even the B10 tournament for totally losing his cool and attacking the assistant coach. The ONLY thing I'm saying here is that the Wisconsin coach isn't innocent in this. His trying to force Howard to stop and interact is what led to the rest. If you can't see that, you're either blind or biased. That's not even an opinion. Look at the video. It's all right there. Howard doing an obvious blowby and smarting off, but Gard grabbing him, turning him, and forcing a conversation. Look. At. The. Video. Open your eyes.

As for Howard, since he has lost his cool before, this may be the end for him at Michigan. He is similar in many ways to what we've seen from Penny Hardaway at Memphis, a former player with a big name who can recruit some but who hadn't shown the coaching acumen to do well at a the high D1 level.
And it is highly likely that Gard would have walked on by if Howard had not said, "I will remember that". Howard was pressing and Gard called a timeout, big deal. Howard used a timeout seconds before Gard called a timeout. I agree with you that Howard should not be fired but since he had a similar, in some ways worse, incident against Maryland last year, he should be suspended for the remainder of the regular season, at a minimum.
 
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sk73

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Yeah I agree . This is 100% on Howard . And because Howard was running his mouth HARD in the shake hands line Gard tried to cool him off a bit .. and explain the the TO ... yes Gard touched his chest .. but it wasnt in anger .. from then on Howard was in ghetto mode . Aint no body disrespecting me. !!! LOL , ( by placing a hand on his chest to slow him down). Thats not dissing you , he's a nut and needs removed before he does clock some opposing player or coach -- see the Maryland tape , this isn't the first time . Howards defense in the presser was just that " He laid hands on me " LOL you fool .. its a weak , lying , woke defense .. but it will save his job , because people are growing accepting of terrible behavior .
While rare, I find myself having to agree with you to some degree. From what I have seen from Howard, if the tables were turned, he would have been just as upset had Gard pressed.
I agree his defense was very weak. So weak that I think he threw in a lie to make it look like Gard did even more than we all saw. Howard is not Woke, as you say. Woke simply means aware. He is totally unaware that his behavior is unacceptable.
 

mebeblue2

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How about instead of just insulting me you actually tell me what is incorrect in what I said. I'm not excusing Howard. I've said multiple times in this thread that Howard should be suspended for at least the rest of the regular season and possibly even the B10 tournament for totally losing his cool and attacking the assistant coach. The ONLY thing I'm saying here is that the Wisconsin coach isn't innocent in this. His trying to force Howard to stop and interact is what led to the rest. If you can't see that, you're either blind or biased. That's not even an opinion. Look at the video. It's all right there. Howard doing an obvious blowby and smarting off, but Gard grabbing him, turning him, and forcing a conversation. Look. At. The. Video. Open your eyes.

As for Howard, since he has lost his cool before, this may be the end for him at Michigan. He is similar in many ways to what we've seen from Penny Hardaway at Memphis, a former player with a big name who can recruit some but who hadn't shown the coaching acumen to do well at a the high D1 level.
at one time both Howard and Penny were rumored to become assistants at UK we avoided 2 bullets there
 

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And it is highly likely that Gard would have walked on by if Howard had not said, "I will remember that". Howard was pressing and Gard called a timeout, big deal. Howard used a timeout seconds before Gard called a timeout. I agree with you that Howard should not be fired but since he had a similar, in some ways worse, incident against Maryland last year, he should be suspended for the remainder of the regular season, at a minimum.
Suspended?

If I go to work and have a physical altercation with someone, I'm in the unemployment line.
 

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There are bad takes.....but congrats....this wins by a TKO....(pun intended)
Actually this wins by KO. People are entitled to see the situation the way they choose to. To say they are wrong because they see it differently than you is simply asinine. None of us were there, we are going on video. None of us know how much pressure Gard used when grabbing Howard. What we do know is the grab was enough to physically stop Howard as he was walking by? Howard repeatedly said don't touch me. We don't know what that assistant coach said to Howard to result in the slap. It's easy to say that Howard shouldn't have slapped him and he shouldn't have. It's also possible to say that the slap was provoked by the coach in something he said. He could have said something racial. He could have said something about Howards family. There are any number of things that could have been said to illicit that response from Howard even though the response was wrong. All of those things can be true at the same time.
 

MWes11

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Not gonna go back and read through all the posts, but Juwan Howard clearly has anger issues. Needs to grow up. Both teams are entitled to play to the whistle no matter the score. His team was getting their *** beat and he wasn't happy. Michigan played Ohio State last week and was down 14 points with 30 seconds left and Michigan called a time out. Get over yourself Juwan. If you want to be mad at someone for calling a Timeout, reach out to Chris Webber and vent your frustration.

That being said, I think a fine and 3 game suspension is okay.
 
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Actually this wins by KO. People are entitled to see the situation the way they choose to. To say they are wrong because they see it differently than you is simply asinine. None of us were there, we are going on video. None of us know how much pressure Gard used when grabbing Howard. What we do know is the grab was enough to physically stop Howard as he was walking by? Howard repeatedly said don't touch me. We don't know what that assistant coach said to Howard to result in the slap. It's easy to say that Howard shouldn't have slapped him and he shouldn't have. It's also possible to say that the slap was provoked by the coach in something he said. He could have said something racial. He could have said something about Howards family. There are any number of things that could have been said to illicit that response from Howard even though the response was wrong. All of those things can be true at the same time.
Nothing racial was said.Howard did not use race during his presser.Trust me,if a racial slur had been said the whole world would know about it.
Regardless,it is unacceptable for a coach to behave in that manner.Gard should be suspended simply for stopping Howard.Let him walk on by and that's it.However,Howard blowed a fuse and absolutely has anger issues.His *** would have done been fired if Michigan really wanted to do the right thing.
My perspective on it is simple.Completely unacceptable and if Cal,whom I love as our coach,had of done it,I'd be advocating for his *** to be fired as well.
 

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Nothing racial was said.Howard did not use race during his presser.Trust me,if a racial slur had been said the whole world would know about it.
Regardless,it is unacceptable for a coach to behave in that manner.Gard should be suspended simply for stopping Howard.Let him walk on by and that's it.However,Howard blowed a fuse and absolutely has anger issues.His *** would have done been fired if Michigan really wanted to do the right thing.
My perspective on it is simple.Completely unacceptable and if Cal,whom I love as our coach,had of done it,I'd be advocating for his *** to be fired as well.
You can say nothing racial was said but unless you were in the middle you do not know that with certainty. Let me be clear, I don’t think anything racial was said but we don’t know for sure what was said but they certainly weren’t exchanging well wishes. We won’t ever know for sure what was said but there are certain things that will
Push anyone to throwing hands (me included) so it is reasonable to think one of those things was said to JH. He can have anger issues and still be pushed too far. Both of those can be true.
 

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You can say nothing racial was said but unless you were in the middle you do not know that with certainty. Let me be clear, I don’t think anything racial was said but we don’t know for sure what was said but they certainly weren’t exchanging well wishes. We won’t ever know for sure what was said but there are certain things that will
Push anyone to throwing hands (me included) so it is reasonable to think one of those things was said to JH. He can have anger issues and still be pushed too far. Both of those can be true.
Believe what you will but Howard NEVER said anything about a racial slur or about race in general during his presser after the game.If anything racial was said then I'm sure the whole world would know about it.It wouldnt have been kept quiet amongst those involved.
Nothing racial was said unless he now uses it to somehow save his job.
 

LowCountryCat

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How about instead of just insulting me you actually tell me what is incorrect in what I said. I'm not excusing Howard. I've said multiple times in this thread that Howard should be suspended for at least the rest of the regular season and possibly even the B10 tournament for totally losing his cool and attacking the assistant coach. The ONLY thing I'm saying here is that the Wisconsin coach isn't innocent in this. His trying to force Howard to stop and interact is what led to the rest. If you can't see that, you're either blind or biased. That's not even an opinion. Look at the video. It's all right there. Howard doing an obvious blowby and smarting off, but Gard grabbing him, turning him, and forcing a conversation. Look. At. The. Video. Open your eyes.

As for Howard, since he has lost his cool before, this may be the end for him at Michigan. He is similar in many ways to what we've seen from Penny Hardaway at Memphis, a former player with a big name who can recruit some but who hadn't shown the coaching acumen to do well at a the high D1 level.
I have to agree with this assessment, he clearly grabs him, turns and gets back in front of him as Howard tries to blow by. He initiated the contact and the confrontation.
 
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Cawood86_rivals

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Wrong. 2 opposing forces. Gard started the physical confrontation. Smarting off by Howard is childish but not a physical confrontation. Gard grabbed Howard first.
So you think Gard should just let Howard mouth off and say nothing? Grab him and point his finger in his face. Howard initiated this whole thing.
Gard got him by the arm to talk. Can't believe this is your take after watching those videos.
I guess Cal got in Adams face if this is your logic and reasonong skills.
 

Cawood86_rivals

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You guys are all misunderstanding me. I'm not excusing Howard. As I said above, he should be suspended the rest of the season. I'm just adding that Gard is not innocent here. The entire blame doesn't get shouldered by Howard. Gard started the physical confrontation. If a guy lays hands on you to force you to stand still and gets in your face, what are you gonna do? That is why the physical confrontation happened. Gard started it. The rest is just 2 competitors getting mad and smarting off. When you put your hands on someone, that changes everything. Howard returned the favor and then escalated it by slapping the assistant. That is inexcusable.
Suspended? He hit another coach in the head and face. Good grief man. What is your deal with all of this?
Howaerd then lied in the presser afterwards. My goodness. Wake up.
 
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TCurtis75_rivals88839

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Believe what you will but Howard NEVER said anything about a racial slur or about race in general during his presser after the game.If anything racial was said then I'm sure the whole world would know about it.It wouldnt have been kept quiet amongst those involved.
Nothing racial was said unless he now uses it to somehow save his job.
I plainly stated that I didn’t believe anything racial was said.
 

Cawood86_rivals

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We will have to agree to disagree then. Grabbing a man right there is starting the physical confrontation. Gard doesn't get zero blame because he got physical first. The right move, as someone above just said, is to make whatever comment you want and keep walking. He decided to grab Howard instead. Without that decision, nothing physical happens.
So Howard walking toward him shouting "I'll remember that timeout" repeatedly did nothing to cause any of this? Grd got him be the arm to talk. Howard immediately amped up everything. He was looking to start something and he did.
You're really wrong on this but keep digging for some reason.
 
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FWIW, I thought Stephen A's take this morning was very reasonable.

He said he wouldn't call for Howard to be fired, but that it would be justified if he was.
 
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revcort

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I have to agree with this assessment, he clearly grabs him, turns and gets back in front of him as Howard tries to blow by. He initiated the contact and the confrontation.
If LowCountryCat and I can agree on this, it must be true. And I'm just messing with you LCC. 😀
 
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You can say nothing racial was said but unless you were in the middle you do not know that with certainty. Let me be clear, I don’t think anything racial was said but we don’t know for sure what was said but they certainly weren’t exchanging well wishes. We won’t ever know for sure what was said but there are certain things that will
Push anyone to throwing hands (me included) so it is reasonable to think one of those things was said to JH. He can have anger issues and still be pushed too far. Both of those can be true.
If you would allow words alone to "push you to throwing hands," you may have a problem.
 

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So you think Gard should just let Howard mouth off and say nothing? Grab him and point his finger in his face. Howard initiated this whole thing.
Gard got him by the arm to talk. Can't believe this is your take after watching those videos.
I guess Cal got in Adams face if this is your logic and reasonong skills.
Yes, Gard should have let Howard say whatever he was saying as they were passing by and kept it pushing. It was clear their was tension from the beginning. Howard went to the back of the line, he didn’t lead from the front. It’s pretty obvious he was pissed off about something. Howard was gonna do the ol blow by until Hard put his hands on him.

And even then, none of that absolves Howard of his actions. He was totally in the wrong for swinging on another coach and being non apologetic afterwards. In all honesty, he should be fired because this is his second offense. But that doesn’t mean Gard is completely innocent in this because he isn’t.
 

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How about instead of just insulting me you actually tell me what is incorrect in what I said. I'm not excusing Howard. I've said multiple times in this thread that Howard should be suspended for at least the rest of the regular season and possibly even the B10 tournament for totally losing his cool and attacking the assistant coach. The ONLY thing I'm saying here is that the Wisconsin coach isn't innocent in this. His trying to force Howard to stop and interact is what led to the rest. If you can't see that, you're either blind or biased. That's not even an opinion. Look at the video. It's all right there. Howard doing an obvious blowby and smarting off, but Gard grabbing him, turning him, and forcing a conversation. Look. At. The. Video. Open your eyes.

As for Howard, since he has lost his cool before, this may be the end for him at Michigan. He is similar in many ways to what we've seen from Penny Hardaway at Memphis, a former player with a big name who can recruit some but who hadn't shown the coaching acumen to do well at a the high D1 level
An insult for making a TKO joke about a bad take???? A little thin skinned there..But I didn't mean to hurt your feelings.

How many times on this board have you complained about coaches having the same type interaction after a game but no punches thrown? My guess is ZERO. This similar scenario occurs probably dozens times a year with all the college games that are played. Why were you silent then? Easy answer....because one of those coaches didn't resort to throwing a punch.

Gard tries to explain why he called a TO and HOT HEAD Howard can't handle it. And yet you want to partially blame Gard because Howard can't act like a man (or a college head coach in charge of players)?

Yea, I guess if Gard knew ahead of time that Howard would go punk instead of being a man, he could have waited to say something. Silly Greg Gard for not being a mind reader.
 

LowCountryCat

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So Howard walking toward him shouting "I'll remember that timeout" repeatedly did nothing to cause any of this? Grd got him be the arm to talk. Howard immediately amped up everything. He was looking to start something and he did.
You're really wrong on this but keep digging for some reason.
I see your point Cawood, only problem with Gard is that he grabbed him. He could have just said "call me" and then raked him over the coals in the postgame. Maybe his biggest mistake was misjudging who he was dealing with, Howard is clearly an angry guy. Either way, he shouldn't have touched him. But Howard should be suspended/fired for sure. Guy is a loose cannon and in no way should be in a position of leadership teaching young men how to conduct themselves.
 

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Yes, Gard should have let Howard say whatever he was saying as they were passing by and kept it pushing. It was clear their was tension from the beginning. Howard went to the back of the line, he didn’t lead from the front. It’s pretty obvious he was pissed off about something. Howard was gonna do the ol blow by until Hard put his hands on him.

And even then, none of that absolves Howard of his actions. He was totally in the wrong for swinging on another coach and being non apologetic afterwards. In all honesty, he should be fired because this is his second offense. But that doesn’t mean Gard is completely innocent in this because he isn’t.
He was mouthing way before Gard got to him. He was wanting to start something. Gard stopped to talk to him and that was just what Howard wanted. He wanted for something to happen. This is all on him.
 

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If you would allow words alone to "push you to throwing hands," you may have a problem.
It was the grabbing and impeding his ability to leave that proceeded the words being exchanged. If all that had happened to anyone of us In a bar, we all would have done what JH did. Anyone that says differently is a liar.
 

Cawood86_rivals

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I see your point Cawood, only problem with Gard is that he grabbed him. He could have just said "call me" and then raked him over the coals in the postgame. Maybe his biggest mistake was misjudging who he was dealing with, Howard is clearly an angry guy. Either way, he shouldn't have touched him. But Howard should be suspended/fired for sure. Guy is a loose cannon and in no way should be in a position of leadership teaching young men how to conduct themselves.
Nope. Howard wanted something to happen. He instigated by mouthing repeatedly to Gard. He made sure something happened. As soon as Gard stopped and touched him, he made sure to escalate it. Not giving Howard a pass. He wanted it to happen. Lied in the post game presser to boot.
 

LowCountryCat

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An insult for making a TKO joke about a bad take???? A little thin skinned there..But I didn't mean to hurt your feelings.

How many times on this board have you complained about coaches having the same type interaction after a game but no punches thrown? My guess is ZERO. This similar scenario occurs probably dozens times a year with all the college games that are played. Why were you silent then? Easy answer....because one of those coaches didn't resort to throwing a punch.

Gard tries to explain why he called a TO and HOT HEAD Howard can't handle it. And yet you want to partially blame Gard because Howard can't act like a man (or a college head coach in charge of players)?

Yea, I guess if Gard knew ahead of time that Howard would go punk instead of being a man, he could have waited to say something. Silly Greg Gard for not being a mind reader.
Your point is fair but you are leaving out the obvious here. There is a legality to an 'offensive touching,' called assault and battery. If someone wants to remain completely blameless in a confrontation, they must avoid initiating contact. Gard did not do so. He's not entirely to blame, nor is he even mostly to blame. But he is not blameless. Some people react strongly to being touched, just as they would to being called 'boy.' Gard screwed up. That in no way excuses Howard, nor should it lessen his punishment. He's a grown man and is responsible for his own actions.
 

LowCountryCat

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Nope. Howard wanted something to happen. He instigated by mouthing repeatedly to Gard. He made sure something happened. As soon as Gard stopped and touched him, he made sure to escalate it. Not giving Howard a pass. He wanted it to happen. Lied in the post game presser to boot.
Yeah Howard wanted to get his verbal shots in, but I rewatched the video and he is clearly trying to get by Gard, who intercepted him and changed his own trajectory in order to do so. Gard should not have taken the bait.
 

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You can say nothing racial was said but unless you were in the middle you do not know that with certainty. Let me be clear, I don’t think anything racial was said but we don’t know for sure what was said but they certainly weren’t exchanging well wishes. We won’t ever know for sure what was said but there are certain things that will
Push anyone to throwing hands (me included) so it is reasonable to think one of those things was said to JH. He can have anger issues and still be pushed too far. Both of those can be true.
I think Howard called Gard a CHILD MOLESTER as they approached each other.

Now I didn't actually hear anything like that, but you know it's a possibility and you can't disagree me with because....science or some other space cadet reasoning.

I apologize to @IL Wildcat..

His take is not even remotely close to your "what could have been possibly said" to cause the punch to be thrown.
 

LowCountryCat

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You can say nothing racial was said but unless you were in the middle you do not know that with certainty. Let me be clear, I don’t think anything racial was said but we don’t know for sure what was said but they certainly weren’t exchanging well wishes. We won’t ever know for sure what was said but there are certain things that will
Push anyone to throwing hands (me included) so it is reasonable to think one of those things was said to JH. He can have anger issues and still be pushed too far. Both of those can be true.
Wow, thanks for reminding me why I've blocked you for over a year. You have some of the worst takes I've ever seen. I was curious so I peeked. Back to ignore you go.
 

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An insult for making a TKO joke about a bad take???? A little thin skinned there..But I didn't mean to hurt your feelings.

How many times on this board have you complained about coaches having the same type interaction after a game but no punches thrown? My guess is ZERO. This similar scenario occurs probably dozens times a year with all the college games that are played. Why were you silent then? Easy answer....because one of those coaches didn't resort to throwing a punch.

Gard tries to explain why he called a TO and HOT HEAD Howard can't handle it. And yet you want to partially blame Gard because Howard can't act like a man (or a college head coach in charge of players)?

Yea, I guess if Gard knew ahead of time that Howard would go punk instead of being a man, he could have waited to say something. Silly Greg Gard for not being a mind reader.
He is partially to blame. Gard doesn’t get to determine when or even if JH has to talk to him. That isn’t his decision to make. Grabbing his arm and then standing in front of him preventing him from leaving intensified the situation. Like I posted a minute ago, if someone did that at a bar when you didn’t want to talk to them, your response would’ve been the same as JH.