I thought it was the 1983 wind blown FG game, but at any rate "defer" was not an option back then. You could choose to kick or receive, or you could choose which end zone to defend. The general rule was that you were stuck with the first words out of your mouth.
The way I remember it, UMiss wanted the wind at their backs to start the game even if that meant kicking off twice, so they were supposed to choose to defend the North endzone. Instead, the team captain said "We'll kick that way", pointing South. Since the first thing he said was "kick", UMiss had chosen to kick and MSU got to choose to defend the North endzone and make them kick into the wind.
In the 3rd quarter, State chose to receive, and UMiss decided they wanted the wind at their backs in the 4th quarter, so they kicked into the wind again.