If you had a son that was a 5-Star recruit.

TopCatCal

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Are there any Top 10 type programs that you would not let him play for?

Myself there are several that I would not let my son play for. Kansas, Michigan State, & UNCheats are the main 3 that I would not let my son play for. Kansas & Michigan State because of the crimes that goes on inside those 2 programs. And I certainly would not want a son of mine to play for that crooked, hypocrite Roy Williams at that academic fraud of a university. And before Pitino & Jurich got fired there would be no way that I would have ever permitted a son of mine to play at that filthy crime ridden place. But I believe since Pitino & Jurich got flushed out in the sewer that UofL has cleaned their act up.
 

isonator35

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Heck, I already have a 5 star recruit. Class of 2033.

But in all seriousness, it's your kids decision. You can't tell him where he can and can't go to college. I would never force my kid to go to UK or force him NOT to go to certain schools. If he visits there and feels at home, then so be it.

This kind of stuff really annoys me. When you hear in the news "The kid wants this school but his parents want this school.
 
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kyjeff1

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Hmm, I would talk to my son/daughter about the things that concern me and help him/her go through the process, but the last thing I'm going to do as a parent is try to control where he/she can or can't go.
I would want my son/daughter to go where he or she wants to go.

Or I could push him to duke, wear blue lipstick during games, be as vocal as possible, watch my kid get drafted in the lottery after his frosh year, then tell everybody it was a horrible experience and cbb is nothing but a prison and I was lied to. Yeah, I COULD do that.
 
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JasonS.

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No.

That is somewhere between silly and counterproductive ... especially in the OAD era. Kid's going to college for a few months.
 
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Dook, Loserville, Kblew, Uncheat and Mich rape. Don't see any of them having kids best interest and the crimes with 4 of the 5 are a gross misuse of power.
 

TankedCat

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so many other decisions come into play, going thru this with my daughter recently. Obviously if your child is a 5 star (mine is not) that changes the dynamics because they are mostly focused on their sport but its also about fit and I was surprised at her choice of schools but her choice made sense once we looked at everything.
 

TBCat

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Michigan State is the only one. There are some top 10 programs that I would prefer over others but I would let him play for any of them except ones like Michigan State where there might be some danger factor that would not want to get involved with.
 

mustnotsleepnow

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I would REALLY STRUGGLE with the idea of my hypothetical son playing for Duke, UNC, Kansas or IU.

I'd rather him go to UK (obviously), Nova, Michigan, NC State, etc.

Having said that, I wouldn't stand in his way.
 
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chroix

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Definitely not at UofL. I’d want to see him play in the tournament. ;)
 
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FrankUnderwood

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Are there any Top 10 type programs that you would not let him play for?

Myself there are several that I would not let my son play for. Kansas, Michigan State, & UNCheats are the main 3 that I would not let my son play for. Kansas & Michigan State because of the crimes that goes on inside those 2 programs. And I certainly would not want a son of mine to play for that crooked, hypocrite Roy Williams at that academic fraud of a university. And before Pitino & Jurich got fired there would be no way that I would have ever permitted a son of mine to play at that filthy crime ridden place. But I believe since Pitino & Jurich got flushed out in the sewer that UofL has cleaned their act up.


How would you “not allow” him to play for them?
 
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Catzman

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Duke, UL or North Carolina.

Flip the question, who would I want him to play for OUTSIDE of Kentucky.

Villanova
Michigan
Virginia (though it'd be boring)
West Virginia
Virginia Tech
 

Cawood86_rivals

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I would want them to go where they felt best and most comfortable.

If that ended up being Duke then I would disown them and write them out of the will....✍
 

BankerCat12

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Places I would not want them to go (its their decision though)

UCLA
IU
Michigan St
UofL

Places I would want them to visit

UK
Kansas
UNC
Virginia
Villanova
Pepperdine (google campus)

Duke and Zona I don't really care either way. I absolutely hate Duke but
 

JC CATS

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I would want them to go where they felt best and most comfortable.

If that ended up being Duke then I would disown them and write them out of the will....✍
So what. He is going to make his own money in the NBA and you aren't going to see a penny of it. Bet you hadn't thought of that :)
 

LineSkiCat14

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If it's basketball? The program that best gives him a chance to make a career of it and be successful. That would be Kentucky.

If' it's Business, Harvard (maybe, they're pretty ethically challeneged it seems).. if it's Law or Med School? Duke is on that list, for certain.

But yes, if it's basketball, Kentucky is your choice.
 

bucsrule8872

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If UK is not an option I would encourage him to stay close to home and play at WKU (depending on who the coach is) or Vandy (I live less than an hour and a half from Nashville and really like the city).
 

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How would you “not allow” him to play for them?
Not sure about scholarship papers but a parent has to sign the NLI if the athlete is a minor. I think UK was the victim of this in the past for a player during Tubby's time. I think it was Glenn Rice but it has been a while.
 

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That's all well and good to think, but each case and child is different. However, there is one constant. Duke...
Duke sucks...... I would be afraid that my child would come home with some rat faced look.
 

MWes11

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I can already tell my unborn, no plans in the near future, son will only be a 4* recruit, so I have nothing to add to this thread.

#slacker
 

Fgpoe03

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I wouldn't try to tell him he couldn't make his own decision. However, if there are programs at the time ( my son is eight) that have rape or sex scandals, I would do my best to steer him away from those schools. I would let him know that one choice can change your whole life and how you are perceived by others. I wouldn't want him viewed as a sexual predator because others on his team made poor decisions. Of course I would push for UK but also would want him to do what's best for his future. So if baseball is his dream ( which he has shown some natural ability and has the right build for it) I would hope he chooses the college that helps him reach the next level. If you give your child the right guidance, they will make the right choice, without ever feeling like they were forced.
 

MWes11

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If I had a son that was a 5 star recruit, I'd have to punch his momma in the mouth because he wouldn't be related to me.
 

TruBluCatFan

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Heck, I already have a 5 star recruit. Class of 2033.

But in all serious, it's your kids decision. You can't tell him where he can and can't go to college. I would never force my kid to go to UK or force him NOT to go to certain schools. If he visits there and feels at home, then so be it.

This kind of stuff really annoys me. When you hear in the news "The kid wants this school but his parents want this school.

Wow. IMO, a good parent has to be involved in the college decision process. Failing to be involved is failing to be a good parent to me.

Especially if they are a 5 Star and inundated with offers. Hopefully parents can give their kids good advice and the kid can listen. It really should be a family decision with the decision coming down to the kid after the parents help him narrow it down to the best schools for him.
 
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John Henry

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If I raised him the right way, the way I was raised by a UK only daddy, he would know where he was going and he would be anxious to sign on the dotted line.

So my 5* son would automatically eliminate UNC, Duke, Kansas, IU and UL. Although UL and IU are no longer Top 10 type programs.

UK and only UK for this bloodline.
 

sk73

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Heck, I already have a 5 star recruit. Class of 2033.

But in all serious, it's your kids decision. You can't tell him where he can and can't go to college. I would never force my kid to go to UK or force him NOT to go to certain schools. If he visits there and feels at home, then so be it.

This kind of stuff really annoys me. When you hear in the news "The kid wants this school but his parents want this school.

The fact that we are on a message board indicates we are big UK fans. If my son were a five star level player, I would like to think we would go through the school selection process together. Growing up he was watching every UK game being played. He would have been cheering and crying along with his family. He would have grown up loving UK. So on the day HE decides his college choice I hope our visits, investigations, conversations about pros and cons all come into play. He makes his choice and I will be happy because I already know he will select the Kentucky hat.
 
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RalphDaltonFan

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Programs I'd Avoid:

1. Michigan State--Izzo has always been a control freak. Jaren Jackson Jr watching Gavin Schilling, Xavier Tillman, Ben Carter cut into his minutes was laughable. Bridges still can't dribble, go right, or pass, and everything is about him. These "problems" at MSU and specifically the basketball program have gone on for a while too. Look up Appling, Dawson, Payne, etc.....

2. Texas--Shaka Smart can't coach offensive basketball.

3. Arizona--See Shaka comments and raise them with Miller

4. Cincinnati--Mick Cronin is an A-hole. Combo of Izzo and Smart/Miller weaknesses.

5. UVA-- I'd never watch my son play if he chose that crap. That's NOT basketball and so happy that approach to the sport was put in spotlight against MD Baltimore-County. The object is to play and outscore your opponent, not limit possessions and when you do that, you keep mediocre/less talented teams in the game and add pressure to your own offensive possessions. Hate Bennett Ball and always have--be it UW Green Bay, Wisconsin, Washington State, or now UVA.
 
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