Not exactly man.
1- We set a goal to build a house next year, but she wanted to stay home and only work part time after our 3rd son. However she still spent like she worked full time, as a nurse.
2- In order to meet our goal we agreed to split bank accounts, and she was responsible for her own individual bills. However when we had a joint account I handled everything except her random spending at the most terrible times.
3- To help her understand better about timing of spending her bills that were really a joint deal were her car, her portion of cell phone, and her car insurance. Everything else that was hers alone was her responsibility she just wasn't used to it.
4- Her nursing license was suspended in July however she nor her employer were aware, apparently. In October her employer found out and couldn't let her work. KBN fined her $1100 but she had no money to pay the fine so I did in order for her to keep working. Not to mention I took on her bills while off work.
5- Since splitting accounts I have managed to save enough money to get everything we want furniture/accessory wise for a new house, and the equity in our house is more than enough for a deposit on the house we want to build.
I in no way did anything intentionally, nor did I have anyway in knowing what so ever.
Personally I don't know a single woman on earth that would say
"Hey sure I'll work crazy hours to make up for that huge mistake I didn't make that really screwed me".
But she has already worked 4 extra shifts this week, and the fine is covered, and she is back to part time work again after Sunday. She is not covering the bills I paid while she was off though because I'm that kind of guy.
As far as the kissing thing, I won't defend myself because I can't honestly say I have a clue, but my guess is she had a hormonal moment and didn't want to be ridiculed.
But none of that is as fun as me posting how stupid krazy is for gyero to have fun with. Just wish I knew some of you better to zing jokes back at you.
