Family Estrangement

SuperBigFan69

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Oh, so you found a filthy rich girl. Niiiiice!!!
Had a girl I used to mess around with, she was a doctor (pretty specialized field) and makes a fortune.

She wanted it bad (a relationship and ring...not my dong) but I blew that off.

Looking back on it now, I could have had a really nice easy life of doing nothing at all :)
 
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steinek11

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Had a girl I used to mess around with, she was a doctor (pretty specialized field) and makes a fortune.

She wanted it bad (a relationship and ring...not my dong) but I blew that off.

Looking back on it now, I could have had a really nice easy life of doing nothing at all :)
You could have. A buddy of mine from high school grew up pretty poor, but he was smart and pretty crafty. He made it through medical school. He thought that would be his ticket . He ended up marrying a gal who is also a doctor. She’s highly specialized and much more ambitious than him, so she makes bank and he spends most of his time sailing around the Puget Sound. They both seem pretty happy.
 

SuperBigFan69

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You could have. A buddy of mine from high school grew up pretty poor, but he was smart and pretty crafty. He made it through medical school. He thought that would be his ticket . He ended up marrying a gal who is also a doctor. She’s highly specialized and much more ambitious than him, so she makes bank and he spends most of his time sailing around the Puget Sound. They both seem pretty happy.
#Brilliant!
 

dinglefritz

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Had a girl I used to mess around with, she was a doctor (pretty specialized field) and makes a fortune.

She wanted it bad (a relationship and ring...not my dong) but I blew that off.

Looking back on it now, I could have had a really nice easy life of doing nothing at all :)
The fact that you would want a life of “doing nothing at all” isn’t a great selling point for you. 😉
 

dinglefritz

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Not rich but makes a little more than I did. I retired 5 years ago at 56 and she gets me health insurance. I saved like crazy before retirement and she will retire at 55 eventually. She's 12 years younger than me.
My wife and I are both medical professionals and at 68 we’re both still working.
 

bmb81664

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My wife and I are both medical professionals and at 68 we’re both still working.
That is great if you are both doing want you want. Some people want to keep working, some have to keep working and some don't have to or want to. When I got laid off at 56 I thought about finding a new job but decided I didn't want to start over somewhere else and I did not need the money. So I got back into some old hobbies I had ignored and found a new one. I could be busier but I like having no commitments or obligations.
 

davecisar

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My wife and I are both medical professionals and at 68 we’re both still working.
Everyone is different and retirement may surprise people. It may not be the nirvana many think. Definitely not for me- thought it would be.

I retired at 39 after starting and selling a contract software development company with over 200 people 3 locations years of 80 hour weeks. Went to Europe for 3 months- bought a house a block from the beach in Destin- lake house here in valley nebraska. Got married and had 3 kids- great life.

But I was bored and without a lot of purpose. Lots of free time and stuff just didnt do if for me. Sitting around isnt for all of us. Since then started 3 different business and work part time now doing what I enjoy only.
So many people wake up everyday thinking I have to work today. Others wake up and say wow I’m fortunate- I get to work. Help people and interact with possibly some great people today. Guess who’s happier?
 

SuperBigFan69

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Retiring is for people that want to die sooner.

I know people like to talk about "hobbies" but if your hobby is anything other than Day Drinking...you are not going to spend a ton of time doing your hobby.
 

litespeedhuskerfan

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Retiring is for people that want to die sooner.

I know people like to talk about "hobbies" but if your hobby is anything other than Day Drinking...you are not going to spend a ton of time doing your hobby.

...not me. I'll never tire of riding my bike. Can't wait to tour the country with no time limit, sleeping in my van (that i don't own anymore, but will again) and camp fires in the mountains, drinking to much and eating those special brownies..... every damn nite :)