Was this girl dad wrong?

GesterHawk

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Counter here, as a dad of 2 young girls:

- My primary concern is for my girls to feel safe and be where they belong, not where I feel comfortable. They should go to the Women's restroom especially once they are out of diapers.

- The dude told the (woman) manager he was taking his girls in there and to watch the door.

- The hotshoe couple clearly were en guarde/ on the lookout for something like this happening and followed him into the bathroom

- (it's giving @fatpiggy saying a trans women followed his wife into a women's bathroom).

- Dude DIDN'T have his phone set up. His daughters did their business, and then the hotshoe couple busted in. They were all washing their hands and the dad "rightfully" thought it was ridiculous and they were clearly being insane, so he set his phone up to record. I'd say that's fairly normal for 2026, considering the rhetoric around this topic.

- The hostshoe couple were clearly conditioned to be outraged and on the lookout to be outraged, and chose their outrage over the children's well being. The kids were crying and scared, and I'm sure they justified it as "the dad is traumatizing them for bringing his children into the women's bathroom when he's a man" but any rational person of their age would see the children's response and if they actually cared about the children's well being, they would have read the room.

- The hotshoe couple had other motives, and that's disgusting to me.

This would never have been an issue before 2020 or so- you can say it's because the left normalized the trans community but I think it's because maga has villainized a tiny community and created an outrage in the majority community.

Just another perspective
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hopefultiger13

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Dad takes his little girls into the bathroom. Stands outside the stalls. Tells any woman who steps in that his little girls are in there and they'll be out as quickly as possible. Anyone with a shred of humanity says "Sure, no problem" and that's the end of it.
THIS x 1000. I did it with my daughter back in the day probably 100 times and NEVER did I have a problem. Probably half the time no one even came to use the bathroom and it was moot. The other times (I'd usually stand in the doorway with my foot holding the door cracked) someone would and what Tarheel said invariably happened. I'd also tell my daughter to "hustle up" b/c someone was waiting and I'd chitchat with whoever was waiting.
 

Mufasa94

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I see you don't subscribe to occam's razor. That's a lot of assumptions viewed through an incredibly narrow lens.
Haha, you really got me.

Some guy who wanted to be seen as a victim created a video and it made its way to the internet where numerous people have a figurative pity party for him.
 
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Counter here, as a dad of 2 young girls:

- My primary concern is for my girls to feel safe and be where they belong, not where I feel comfortable. They should go to the Women's restroom especially once they are out of diapers.

- The dude told the (woman) manager he was taking his girls in there and to watch the door.

- The hotshoe couple clearly were en guarde/ on the lookout for something like this happening and followed him into the bathroom

- (it's giving @fatpiggy saying a trans women followed his wife into a women's bathroom).

- Dude DIDN'T have his phone set up. His daughters did their business, and then the hotshoe couple busted in. They were all washing their hands and the dad "rightfully" thought it was ridiculous and they were clearly being insane, so he set his phone up to record. I'd say that's fairly normal for 2026, considering the rhetoric around this topic.

- The hostshoe couple were clearly conditioned to be outraged and on the lookout to be outraged, and chose their outrage over the children's well being. The kids were crying and scared, and I'm sure they justified it as "the dad is traumatizing them for bringing his children into the women's bathroom when he's a man" but any rational person of their age would see the children's response and if they actually cared about the children's well being, they would have read the room.

- The hotshoe couple had other motives, and that's disgusting to me.

This would never have been an issue before 2020 or so- you can say it's because the left normalized the trans community but I think it's because maga has villainized a tiny community and created an outrage in the majority community.

Just another perspective
I'm either too old or too young (or too northern) to get the "hotshoe" reference. What does that word mean?
 

GesterHawk

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Vilify? That is a rather intensely descriptive word. I wrote he wasn’t a good guy. I never wrote he was the worse guy, let alone a villain.
I'd say my word choice is accurate.

You blame him for taking his daughters into the bathroom.
You blame him for filming the episode.
You blame him for washing his hands too long.
You blame him for his bon-reactive attitude.
You blame him for trying to use the exit to the store.
You blame him for posting it online.

Yes, I think you are trying to blame the father for the whole thing and you are trying to gaslight us into believing he was the problem child in the whole thing.

I will ask you again, why are you trying to villify the father?
 
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Jerome Silberman

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Haha, you really got me.

Some guy who wanted to be seen as a victim created a video and it made its way to the internet where numerous people have a figurative pity party for him.

You keep ascribing far more to this than the guy involved ever said or did on camera. It's weird.
 
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AlexanderUrinis

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We normally are on the same side of things but in 52 years, I don't recall ever seeing another man's junk.
Sounds like you are not trying hard (giggity) enough, need new glasses, or both. There is a world of junk out there just waiting for you to explore! My favorite term is a "peen peek" or if'n I am feeling randy a "salami stare"
 
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TizzyEnt


A man harasses & calls the police on a father taking his young daughters to use the restroom. FOUND

 

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GesterHawk

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Well sh_t. I guess I am wrong.
 

Mufasa94

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I'd say my word choice is accurate.

You blame him for taking his daughters into the bathroom.
Provide my quote to support this accusation.
You blame him for filming the episode.
Well...he did. it wasn't a security camera or a third party.
You blame him for washing his hands too long.
I blamed him for wasting time pulling out his phone and setting it up instead of washing his (and daughters’ hands). Who knows how much other time he wasted before the video started.
You blame him for his bon-reactive attitude.
No idea what this means, please write in English.
You blame him for trying to use the exit to the store.
I blamed him for not using the closest aisle that was clear. He intentionally picked the aisle that had the other guy. I even provided the exact time when you are able to see it in his own video,
You blame him for posting it online.
Well…he provided the video for the world to see. Nobody else would have had access to the video.
Yes, I think you are trying to blame the father for the whole thing
This is completely false as my first post (#113) in this thread included a comment about the other guy. I do not believe anyone in this thread supported the other guy.
and you are trying to gaslight us into believing he was the problem child in the whole thing.
Provide any quote from my descriptions of the video that did not occur. Do not include something you make up in your head like the first accusation above.
 

Hotshoe

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It's 2026, grow up.
Lmao. Like saying the Bill of Rights is outdated. The year has nothing to do with this. As a male, you have zero reason to walk into a female bathroom. Only scumbags do such a thing.
 
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Hotshoe

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YOU DON'T TAKE UR GIRLS INTO THE WOMENS BATHROOM. YOU FIND A STRANGER TO TAKE THEM INTO THE BATHROOM. YOU STIPID LIB
99.9% of women always help a daughter in this situation. It's rather obvious, you're a moron. My wife did it numerous times with our boys at State and National Parks. It is literally the protocol for most parents. You are absolutely clueless.
 

Hotshoe

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Excuse me gas station woman, could I burden you with taking two children to the bathroom?

They will not be comfortable with you, and they may make a mess, but I cannot go into this room that has no other people in it because Dale over there is going to call the police.
Not even remotely true. You're citing one instance which doesn't even register statistically.
 

McLovin32

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99.9% of women always help a daughter in this situation. It's rather obvious, you're a moron. My wife did it numerous times with our boys at State and National Parks. It is literally the protocol for most parents. You are absolutely clueless.
Not surprising that your family chose to visit state and national parks without you.
 

Hotshoe

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Wth do European countries have to do with America? We are not the same, and for good reason. Y'all act like all 50 states have the same laws. Well, Iceland doesn't have an issue, why should we? Lmao at the blatant ignorance by the left on here.

Furthermore, in Europe, without unisex bathrooms available, men general walk inside, and take their daughters into male restrooms. That's a simple fact. The father takes them into private stalls. He absolutely must announce his presence.
 

AFM22

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Lmao. Like saying the Bill of Rights is outdated. The year has nothing to do with this. As a male, you have zero reason to walk into a female bathroom. Only scumbags do such a thing.
Brother in Christ, this has nothing to do with the bill of rights.

This is about a father taking his daughters into an EMPTY bathroom and the only person upset by it got shid canned by his employer.
 

McLovin32

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Brother in Christ, this has nothing to do with the bill of rights.

This is about a father taking his daughters into an EMPTY bathroom and the only person upset by it got shid canned by his employer.
You're talking to a guy who's family went on vacations without him. HE KNOWS WHAT TYPES OF GUYS GO INTO WOMENS RESTROOMS. ONLY SCUMBAGS
 
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