Was this girl dad wrong?

dpic73

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Polite young man with two young daughters traveling from Florida to Oklahoma, stops at a QT to let his daughters use the bathroom and takes them into the empty women's room because he doesn't want to take them into men's room with open urinals. Crazed a.sshole confronts him and calls the cops. Was he wrong for taking his daughters into the women's room? FYI, the QT employee had his back.


 

Yellowsnow51

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So what's his option here? Take young girls into the men's restroom? Conservative have assured me that this will end in rape.
So you agree that he was correct to take them into the girls room and not expose them to grown men’s peckers? Only took you 20 years to come to that conclusion. Congrats!
 

SolicitorJacket

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Men urinate in the open so the girls would be exposed to seeing male genitalia. Women's restrooms are individual stalls. A woman using the restroom while the father was inside the restroom would still have privacy.
What if Dad was Trans?
 

tarheelbybirth1

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What happens if he takes them into the men's room again? Thats always what I did when my daughter was to young to go to the women's room unattended.
Hell, I don't like going in the men's restroom. We're f'n pigs pissing on everything. Nothing worse than standing in a puddle of piss at the urinal. I wouldn't put a little girl on a toilet seat in a men's restroom under any circumstances.
 

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Hell, I don't like going in the men's restroom. We're f'n pigs pissing on everything. Nothing worse than standing in a puddle of piss at the urinal. I wouldn't put a little girl on a toilet seat in a men's restroom under any circumstances.
Would you let your little boy sit in a men's restroom? Couldn't the sight of men exposed at urinals turn him gay?
 

tarheelbybirth1

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What if Dad was Trans?
Trans dad takes his little girls into the bathroom. Stands outside the stalls. Tells any woman who steps in that his little girls are in there and they'll be out as quickly as possible. Anyone with a shred of humanity says "Sure, no problem" and that's the end of it.
What's got you stumped here?
 

tarheelbybirth1

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Would you let your little boy sit in a men's restroom? Couldn't the sight of men exposed at urinals turn him gay?
Move to strike as non-responsive. I have said not one word about viewing penises, but you seem fixated on that. Hobby of yours, perhaps? Do you like the feeling of piss on your ***, too?

FTR, I didn't like having my two boys sitting on public restroom seats, either.
 

SolicitorJacket

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Move to strike as non-responsive. I have said not one word about viewing penises, but you seem fixated on that. Hobby of yours, perhaps? Do you like the feeling of piss on your ***, too?

FTR, I didn't like having my two boys sitting on public restroom seats, either.
Lord have mercy, sprout some hair on your balls and wipe the damn seat.
 
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McLovin32

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Hell, I don't like going in the men's restroom. We're f'n pigs pissing on everything. Nothing worse than standing in a puddle of piss at the urinal. I wouldn't put a little girl on a toilet seat in a men's restroom under any circumstances.
This has nothing to do with the topic of this thread, I worked in the warehouse at a K's Merchandise in CR back in high school. Part of the job was cleaning the men's and women's restrooms every night that I closed. I can easily say without a doubt, that the women's restroom was always MUCH worse than the men's restroom. It never failed. I've heard similar from folks that have worked in the bar/restaurant biz too/csb
 

firegiver

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I take my little girls into mens restrooms. One of them is too young to go on her own. I do this mainly because I don't want women to be uncomfortable with me being in their restroom and confronting me and causing a scene. It is a tough situation to be in , but I've never had an issue with the guys flashing peckers at me or my daughters. Just lucky I guess.
Also, I don't criticize this man's decision to use the womens restroom. Even if I did it differently. Its a tough spot to be in especially for girl dads with their kids without their mom/wife around at the time.
 

dpic73

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I take my little girls into mens restrooms. One of them is too young to go on her own. I do this mainly because I don't want women to be uncomfortable with me being in their restroom and confronting me and causing a scene. It is a tough situation to be in , but I've never had an issue with the guys flashing peckers at me or my daughters. Just lucky I guess.
Also, I don't criticize this man's decision to use the womens restroom. Even if I did it differently. Its a tough spot to be in especially for girl dads with their kids without their mom/wife around at the time.
It also needs to be pointed out that the female QT Manager was watching the door for him so women would have been aware that he was in there before they walked in.
 
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Men urinate in the open so the girls would be exposed to seeing male genitalia. Women's restrooms are individual stalls. A woman using the restroom while the father was inside the restroom would still have privacy.
I don’t think I have ever gone to a public restroom and saw a males genitalia in my over 40 years on this planet. Not even when I used the old trough inside kinnick, but that’s more so because I wasn’t trying to check out a dudes junk. Maybe I’m doing it wrong and should be standing in the middle of the restroom facing the door and pissing on the floor.
 
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It's amazing how people can get upset over the dumbest stuff. The kids had to use the restroom. Either they go in the men's or do it like he did. Either is fine as long as people grow up and act like adults.
So if everyone is acting like an adult, the answer is to enter the men’s restroom and use a stall.
 

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If that situation arose when my girls were little I would take them to the men's room and we would use the handicapped stall for both privacy and extra room,.. Not a problem.
 

dpic73

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So why not do the same thing using the men’s restroom?
Because adult men wouldn't have cared and it might have been occupied? Look, there is no perfect answer but the women's room was empty and he didn't want to take them into a bathroom with open urinals. Even though I approve of what he did, I'm more interested in everyone else's opinion.