OT: Bagging groceries

e5fdny

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Lol I knew using Epstein as an example was the wrong choice...I was just trying to use a recent example of people not understanding the financial system....imo it's like the saying "if you knew better you'd do better"... When you say that people shouldn't be depending on certain jobs for their financial responsibilities, it makes me want to find a way to explain that many people don't know any better and just want a job.

Unfortunately the jobs you can get without specialized skills or a degree are disappearing and as you said won't support a family. We see what has happened to urban areas and the inner city after the factory jobs that supported the residents disappeared. When entire communities lose a source of income and have to adapt in a relatively short amount of time, it becomes a problem.
A better example to use here would be the way everyone is so mad at rich people because often times the media says things like "this person made 48 billion dollars in one day". They say this for shock value because the average person doesn't understand that those are just stock prices rising and falling. Or "tax unrealized gains", if these guys like bezos or musk started selling off stocks to pay taxes it would crash the markets...but the average person does not understand this because it's not something you learn in most highschools. So yes I agree with you, I just wanted to add some context conversation. Often in these conversations online I get the impression that people working these jobs are looked down upon as stupid or lazy or whatever but that is not the case. You can't know what you aren't taught..
That was never my intention in this thread and if someone took it that way they were mistaken.

My point was always this kind of thing, entry level employment, is just that…the bottom. It’s a means to begin, enhance or just something a little extra.
 
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DJ Spanky

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$15.92 - $636 for a 40 hour week - it ain't that high.

Margins in grocery stores are razor thin, so anything they can do to cut costs they will. And sometimes it's a "bite off your nose to spite your face" kind of situation. For example, long ago I refused to go to a store once I figured out that they only bought a finite amount (a small finite amount!) of their loss leaders for the weekly sale and never replaced them.
 

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My local tax collector was arrested for shoplifting by using self checkout lanes and not scanning/paying for many items at Wegmans. Couldn’t happen to a nicer ‘see you next Tuesday.’ @Rutgers Chris probably remembers who I’m talking about.
Gail was in the constrution office in charge of permits, etc. She was a major ball buster years ago and then she got really nice..and then she got arrested ..
 
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Caliknight

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The discussion has changed to whether or not this type of job should be the ONE to raise a family or household.

And the answer is no, that’s not what these are intended for, nor should they evolve into that.

Additional and extra income, second job to supplement other expenses…yes.

That’s not not caring, that’s reality.

I am certainly not looking down on someone who do these jobs or needs to do these for whatever the circumstances. But again, this is something (if you’re planning on doing anything in life - family, pay the rent/mortgage, buy a car etc.) you start at and move on.
It’s comical seeing people trying to position bagging groceries as a career. I like how a store I grew up near does it now. They hire people on the spectrum or whatever they are called now. That’s the level of job it is.
 

MulletCork

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Yeah this thread went off the rails hardcore. As a former bagger as a high school kid now retiring in my 50’s, hard work pays off. I washed dishes at a pizzeria when I was 13. These jobs exist and are not glorious but they are needed.

Obviously not a place to support a family off of as a bagger. But as a union job, I don’t know. I worked hard, showed up and got promoted to dairy, and also for frozen, and even seafood and as the “guy” who worked the receiving bays at 6am for trucks. Before having a driver’s license . There is a pathway in a grocery store, albeit not glamorous. I sucked at sports so it was smarter than pretending to be something I wasn’t.

But it was money and work as a kid and taught me to basically work hard for the next 40 years. Is that a bad thing?

Went to Trader Joe’s for first time today in maybe a decade. Wife wanted some nonsense. A friendly adult lady bagged my stuff. I was stunned. Very friendly and I thanked her twice. Maybe I should have looked down on her. Sad!
 

Knight Shift

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Yeah this thread went off the rails hardcore. As a former bagger as a high school kid now retiring in my 50’s, hard work pays off. I washed dishes at a pizzeria when I was 13. These jobs exist and are not glorious but they are needed.

Obviously not a place to support a family off of as a bagger. But as a union job, I don’t know. I worked hard, showed up and got promoted to dairy, and also for frozen, and even seafood and as the “guy” who worked the receiving bays at 6am for trucks. Before having a driver’s license . There is a pathway in a grocery store, albeit not glamorous. I sucked at sports so it was smarter than pretending to be something I wasn’t.

But it was money and work as a kid and taught me to basically work hard for the next 40 years. Is that a bad thing?

Went to Trader Joe’s for first time today in maybe a decade. Wife wanted some nonsense. A friendly adult lady bagged my stuff. I was stunned. Very friendly and I thanked her twice. Maybe I should have looked down on her. Sad!
Similar story for me. First job at 13 or 14 was at car wash for $2.35/hour. Saved every penny like a miser and paid for my own first car and the insurance, and, later working 3 jobs, my own tuition, room and board at RU. From small things, big things one day come.