I am well aware that these are my opinions, Brian. I am also quite aware and thankful that I am not mod. If I were, you would have been banned permanently years ago for how you treat women on the message boards. I am certainly “allowed” to “make up” any rule that I choose, just as everybody else is.
A person sharing their experiences does not entitle you to ask about their anatomy. That is as absurd as saying that my scratching my beard entitles you to touch my face. Clearly, you need to revisit the concept of consent.