Passed suddenly yesterday. She made it to 100 and 17 days. I'll miss her dearly. I shared with her the boards congratulations, so I figured I share this. All good things come to an end regrettably.
Shalom
Potter.
Shalom
Potter.
Update: That lovely mom-mom I celebrated with the board for her 100 years on Earth.....
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So sorry for your family’s loss.
Wordsworth:
What though the radiance which was once so bright
Be now forever taken from my sight,
Though nothing can bring back the hour
Of splendor in the grass, of glory in the flower;
We shall grieve not, rather find
Strength in what remains behind;
In the primal sympathy
Which having been must ever be;
In the soothing thoughts that spring
Out of human suffering;
In the faith that looks through death,
In years that bring the philosophic mind.
Wordsworth:
What though the radiance which was once so bright
Be now forever taken from my sight,
Though nothing can bring back the hour
Of splendor in the grass, of glory in the flower;
We shall grieve not, rather find
Strength in what remains behind;
In the primal sympathy
Which having been must ever be;
In the soothing thoughts that spring
Out of human suffering;
In the faith that looks through death,
In years that bring the philosophic mind.
Sorry to hear that Mr. Potter.
She could have called JVP a "short-timer". She's with God and all her old friends, relatives, and pets now. She's gonna be busy!
She could have called JVP a "short-timer". She's with God and all her old friends, relatives, and pets now. She's gonna be busy!
Godspeed… may she rest in peace. A life well-lived!
Very sorry to hear this Potter; hoping the many good memories of her and kind words from friends and family are of some comfort to you now. The sting of the loss will never go away and these early days are rough, but she had an amazing run and by all accounts a tremendous family. That is worth everything.
So sorry to hear that Mr Potter. My mother is also 100. Just spent the weekend visiting her in PA. I’ll keep you in my prayers and know she is smiling down on you now.
Very sorry for your loss, Potter. 100 years is amazing. No doubt you have many good memories. Cherish the good times.
R.I.P.
R.I.P.
Awww, that’s sad.
But 100+ is an awesome achievement
She's in the Lord's hands now, and being well taken care of. I'm sad for you Mr Potter.
A life to be celebrated, 100 years true time traveler, from one long past era to the future........
condolences to you and your family
Goin' home, goin' home
By the water-side, I will rest my bones
Listen to the river sing sweet songs
To rock my soul
damn, sad to hear this news. I hope your extended family celebrates her life.
Sorry for your loss Mr. Potter. Thinking of you and your family during this trying time.
Condolences Potter and Thank you for keeping us in the loop. Safe travels to mom.
In another time’s forgotten space,
your eyes looked through your mother’s face
Wildflower seed on the sand and stone
May the Four winds blow you safely home…..
In another time’s forgotten space,
your eyes looked through your mother’s face
Wildflower seed on the sand and stone
May the Four winds blow you safely home…..
She raised an honorable son. No Mom can ask for more. My thoughts and prayers are with her and your entire family. May she Rest in Peace.
May a good and gracious God welcome her with open arms.
May that same good and gracious God give you and your family comfort in this difficult time.
Shalom, Mr. Potter
May that same good and gracious God give you and your family comfort in this difficult time.
Shalom, Mr. Potter
Condolences Mr. Potter.
Sorry for your loss, but also happy that you had time with her.
Sorry for your loss, but also happy that you had time with her.
What a great life. Hey make it to the big 100 and pass. Not that bad at all!!
my moms favorite song. In the garden.
“
And He walks with me, and He talks with me,
And He tells me I am His own,
And the joy we share as we tarry there,
None other has ever known.”
Mr. Potter. Sincere condolences to you and the entire Potter family on your loss.
How is the Potter family planning on properly recognizing mom-mom's life? I'm somewhat unfamiliar with Hebrew traditions but it doesn't seem that there is a natural gathering of kin on the day of burial.
Key Rituals and Practices
How is the Potter family planning on properly recognizing mom-mom's life? I'm somewhat unfamiliar with Hebrew traditions but it doesn't seem that there is a natural gathering of kin on the day of burial.
Key Rituals and Practices
- Taharah (Purification): A designated group (chevra kadisha) ritually washes and purifies the body.
- Shmirah (Watching): The deceased is never left alone from death until burial, with guardians reciting psalms.
- Kriah (Tearing): Immediate family tears a garment or a black ribbon, symbolizing loss, usually done just before the funeral.
- Levaya (Funeral): Burial traditionally occurs within 24–48 hours, avoiding Shabbat or major holidays.
- Burial: Embalming is avoided, and bodies are buried in simple, biodegradable wooden coffins. Family members may shovel earth onto the casket as a final act of love (chesed shel emet).
- Shiva (Seven Days): The primary mourning period. Family stays home, sits on low stools, covers mirrors, and avoids entertainment.
- Shloshim: A 30-day mourning period where mourners slowly return to public life.
- Yahrzeit: The annual anniversary of the death (according to the Hebrew calendar), marked by lighting a 24-hour candle and saying Kaddish.
- Visiting (Shiva): Visitors traditionally bring food to the mourners to alleviate the burden of preparation.
- Condolence Phrase: Upon leaving, guests say, "May God comfort you among all the mourners of Zion and Jerusalem".
- Attire: Modest dress is required, often with men wearing a yarmulke (head covering).