This idea that people are living in fear is misplaced. A poster above already mentioned this, but it bears repeating. Deaths from catastrophic vehicular accidents or terror attacks are not contagious. Comparisons to behavior exhibited post 9/11 are not relevant to to the lack of contagion From such an event.
Skipping a holiday family gathering sucks. But it’s a sacrifice for the benefit of society to slow the spread of a lethal pathogen. Just as skipping out on a weekend visit to a restaurant or a football tailgate are sacrifices. This is a war time situation, except the invader can’t be completely defeated without a vaccine (and even then, it likely will linger for a period of time). This invader can be suppressed, through the daily minor inconveniences of mask wearing and social distancing, and the unpleasant sacrifices of forgoing in-person indoor gatherings. Indulging in those items means you are contributing to the spread, and is selfish. Adhering to public health measures isn’t fear, its a selfless sacrifice that will limit the fatality damage until a vaccine is available.
There are those bearing a heavier economic cost due to these sacrifices, and it’ the role of government to tide them over until we reach the other side of this pandemic.
Mask wearing and social distancing do not eliminate the spread of COVID. All else being equal (such as outdoor temperatures), those actions will slow the spread. Areas in colder climates which have better public health adherence still experience increases in case counts, hospitalizations and deaths, but those increases are lower than in states lacking public health discipline. This isn’t conjecture. It’s based upon actual case counts. Feel free to examine the link for per capita case counts over the last 7 days. The story is clear.
I’d also agree that the virus isn’t political. It attacks at the point of least resistance, regardless of gender or political affiliation. Those areas offering less resistance, as described above, are experiencing a more aggressive attack while those utilizing simple, known tools are faring better (though they are not unscathed).