I blame my wife for losses if she comes into the room and we start losing. She pretty much stays away now. It’s not a good relationship considering the last 25 years of no post season.
I hear ya, Zap. I joined the RU faculty in '76 and left in '05. We were undefeated when I got there, then went into a 29 year funk, and then came back strong the year I left.I intently count down the minutes till game time on my couch, with full intentions of watching the entire game as I do when I watch us live at the RAC.
But, as I watch, all we do is miss, turn the ball over and the other team scores...lol
I turn the channel and return a few minutes later expecting us to be down double digits, and to my surprise we're tied.
I then watch us turn the ball over, miss shots, and watch the other team score.
Repeat the process it seems all night.???
I have come to the conclusion I'm so nervous and ridiculously critical of every possession, it's impossible for me to watch the game objectively...I"m so critical, unless we execute perfectly, I don't even realize we're playing well.
Insane, I love being an RU fan...the last 5 minutes of basketball games now are just shear madness to watch....so much fun
I find myself in virtually every post I read here. What have we done to ourselves? I hope that each game will be the sign that we are turning it around. Then we win but we win ugly so I am not sure. Then we lose and I am disappointed again. Then we win ugly so there is doubt about how good we are. it is like ground hog day all over again. Go RU.
These days I'm mostly watching games on DVR after the kids have gone to bed, so I'm watching on a delay. I avoid this board, social media, and text messages from the time of tip off to the time I've finished watching the game. It also means I'm not in the game thread, or able to look at stats during the game on my phone.
There is a lot of cursing and yelling at the TV - which gets more than a few comments from my wife to keep it down and not wake the kids. Also plenty of "close out!" "you can't leave that guy open!" "you have to go over the screen!" "why can we not hit a layup!?" "what were you thinking!?" "you have to call that!" etc.
My wife played some basketball in high school, and her biggest beef is when we miss free throws. She just doesn't understand how we can miss so many, and how big guys get away with being so bad at the line. There's the occasional "bronx cheer" when we hit both FTs on a trip to the line, and "see? their big guy can hit FTs!" when a guy like Giorgi just smoothly drains them. She usually divides her attention between the game and her phone.
A lot of the close plays are rewatched 2-3 times, often in slo mo. This sometimes calms me down a bit (when the ref made the right call) and sometimes gets me even more riled up (when it was an obvious bad call/play). I also speed through all commercials, time outs and half time, which packs the action of the game closer together without any breaks - which means no down time to cool off, but also less of the dramatic build up that comes with having to wait through commercials.
So you think maybe she wasn’t the reason? Besides you can’t jinx without physical presence. That’s a known fact.I blame my wife for losses if she comes into the room and we start losing. She pretty much stays away now. It’s not a good relationship considering the last 25 years of no post season.
I am the same for both Football and Basketball. It’s the being “trapped” feeling in the Stadium or the RAC that makes it a little easier to deal with.I find I am more nervous watching at home than I am at the RAC. I always DVR the games. I start watching, but switch off, I keep track of the score via phone app. Once I know the results, especially a win, I watch the game right after it's finished.
I do switch back now and then, but like Zap, seems like I see the bad spots. I did watch the final 25 seconds live...heart pumping.
I was there too. At that point in my life the Iowa team was the biggest group of white guys I had ever seen up close. I know they weren’t but they all seemed blonde.Sure do. Was there in Providence. Game tied with ten minutes left and then B J went wild and just didn’t miss. Also the same day that Princeton nearly knocked off #1 seed Georgetown.
I intently count down the minutes till game time on my couch, with full intentions of watching the entire game as I do when I watch us live at the RAC.
But, as I watch, all we do is miss, turn the ball over and the other team scores...lol
I turn the channel and return a few minutes later expecting us to be down double digits, and to my surprise we're tied.
I then watch us turn the ball over, miss shots, and watch the other team score.
Repeat the process it seems all night.???
I have come to the conclusion I'm so nervous and ridiculously critical of every possession, it's impossible for me to watch the game objectively...I"m so critical, unless we execute perfectly, I don't even realize we're playing well.
Insane, I love being an RU fan...the last 5 minutes of basketball games now are just shear madness to watch....so much fun
I do the exact same thing
Love using the replay on questionable referee calls, great plays (the Shaq throw downs!) to see how they developed, bad plays (what could someone have done differently), etc.
I feel like a coach reviewing game film, but in real time (sort of real time since the game is often over by the time I start watching).
I never want to intentionally learn the result of a game, and then watch it.
The whole point of watching is to experience the emotions and drama and see what will happen.
I'm not one to use foul language much, but during Rutgers games ALL BETS ARE OFF!Starting with the big ten tournaments last year ...I’ve dropped more f bombs this year in hoops then the last 12 combined
I blame my wife for losses if she comes into the room and we start losing. She pretty much stays away now. It’s not a good relationship considering the last 25 years of no post season.
I intently count down the minutes till game time on my couch, with full intentions of watching the entire game as I do when I watch us live at the RAC.
But, as I watch, all we do is miss, turn the ball over and the other team scores...lol
I turn the channel and return a few minutes later expecting us to be down double digits, and to my surprise we're tied.
I then watch us turn the ball over, miss shots, and watch the other team score.
Repeat the process it seems all night.???
I have come to the conclusion I'm so nervous and ridiculously critical of every possession, it's impossible for me to watch the game objectively...I"m so critical, unless we execute perfectly, I don't even realize we're playing well.
Insane, I love being an RU fan...the last 5 minutes of basketball games now are just shear madness to watch....so much fun