So my son is 9 and he told me today is Patriotic day at school and that he wanted to wear something appropriate. I asked him if he knew why today was Patriotic day and he asked me if I knew what day it was (meaning 9/11). We didn't say anymore. On the ride to school I asked if they talked about what happened today at school and got the indication they have not - maybe they will today. I asked if he had any questions and we had a little discussion about what happened, but I'm not sure he fully grasped the events of that day. Someone suggested '102 minutes that changed America' - has anyone watched that video? I think it's good to have these discussions, but I don't want to traumatize him either.