I graduated with a BS in EE from MSU. One of my sons graduated from Texas A&M with an engineering degree. Two of my other children have already graduated from MSU (non-engineering). Fourth child is a current student at MSU. So I speak from first-hand experience.
Texas A&M is a machine and only has a leg-up with their “cult” of a network. When my son was a student, he missed his graduation deadline 2 semesters in a row because his part-time/quarter-time “advisor” (by name only) missed a required course he needed from the syllabus to graduate. Cost me another 2 full semesters of tuition money. Student support is piss poor. You are merely a number and cog in a huge machine. My son had major difficulty finding a job interviewing as a student on campus. The day he walked the stage for graduation, he got his only phone call for a job thanks to the huge Aggie network which ultimately came through.
Meanwhile, my two kids who are MSU graduates both had jobs lined up prior to graduation. The finance major works for a huge top-name mutual fund company in Dallas. The communications graduate runs a small 20 person branch of a retail business in the Houston area.
It all comes down to the money. MSU’s scholarships especially for children of alumni cannot be touched by any school in the South. One of my MSU students got $64,000 over 4 years and the other one got $72,000 including the credit for children of alumni waivers. The best offer outside of those was in the $20k-$25k range.
Now for my experience. After 30 years in the professional world there’s no difference in talent or aptitude for graduates of either school. I completed 5 semesters of Co-op engineering work for the nation’s largest defense contractor at the time, located in Dallas/Fort Worth. Their number 1 school for engineering students was Purdue. Have to agree their students were both top-notch academically as well as socially. The top five schools by headcount representation for co-op hires were (1) Purdue, (2) Georgia Tech, (3) University of Texas, (4) Mississippi State (thanks to EE and Aero), and (5) Texas A&M. Yep. I think Florida was the only other southeast school in the Top 10.
I left engineering to go on more of an IT business system path, and can say that MSU was well represented and equal in all aspects. It really comes down to work ethic and personal drive.
It’s interesting, in my professional career I never met a Vanderbilt, Georgia, or Alabama engineering graduate, and only 1 Ole Miss and 1 Auburn engineering graduate in 30 years.