I thought you didn’t resort to name calling unless provoked.
Oops, there goes another one.
A) Just who specifically did I call a name?
B) I also said I do return insults once the other party throws them out. Haven't been very successful, "turning the other cheek". Once the other guy starts the BS, I allow myself to treat them like a POS from them on, unless they apologize and offer to start over. In my book, the one who first decides to be an *** is the one who needs to set things right. That's what I did with Engie, and that's my code. I fully recognize that most on here don't have a, "code". Codes may be old-fashioned, but never out of style.
That said, I've occasionally decided to, "pull it in anyway" if the aforementioned trolls just stop behaving like dicks. Don't respect them, but don't go out of my way to be nasty either...at least for some. Plenty of times conflict is the result of misunderstanding or miscommunication. One party posts something the other party perhaps reads tone into, or another party decides the other is somehow being pretentious or egotistical just because he's not throwing enough, "aint's", or 17's around, or something similar.
Rocketdawg has made a point of mentioning I tend to use decent grammar/vocabulary. Some may read that as me trying to be, "hoity-toity", but it's not. It's just the way I talk, probably because I traveled the world quite a bit when I was young, going to schools overseas, etc.
I'm sure there are many who resent me because, when I believe something, I'm not shy about voicing my opinion, and then defending my position vigorously in debate. I can most definitely become argumentative, which can be really frustrating and irritating to some, but that's more on them than me, as long as I'm not being disrespectful in the way I respond to them. Convince me I'm wrong and I'll admit it and change, but if you can't convince me, you shouldn't expect me to just roll over and give in, just to save your feelings. Most of us here are grown men and women, and should be mature and decent enough to not be jackasses to anyone who hasn't been one to us first. But that's not how it works, so we all have to accept this for what it's worth, hopefully getting enough out of it to enjoy it and continue participating.
In any case, that's how I feel about it, FWIW. Thank God I don't look to this or any message board for any sort of personal validation or sense of worthiness. That would be truly pathetic.