Bottom line is, you must accept reality. You're on a public road, there are going to be bad drivers. Traffic is very, VERY predictable when viewed as a collective (but unpredictable as an individual). Do what you have to do to get where you are going, safely.
Another reality is that when you on the interstate at speeds of 60-90, and factoring in traffic, it's highly unlikely that you are going to save much time by getting in a hurry. You are 80% at the mercy of traffic. Accept that and slow down.
A good example of simply doing what you have to do, is when they drop traffic down to one lane, with the cones. People start lining up in the lane that is still open, and if anyone bypasses them by rolling on down the 'to be closed' lane, everyone calls them an *******. But are they ********, or are they just smart and accepting of reality? Maybe a mix of both, because people are going to continue to do that, and it's going to bottleneck traffic. So you may as well fill up both lanes and accept the bottleneck. Getting in that backed up open lane line is a futile effort and just dumb.
Now, the guy who drives in the left lane because it's a newer lane with less bumps? Well, THAT guy is an *******, unless you're traveling on MS 25, or I-59 in northeast Alabama, or I-65 between Birmingham and Hoover, then you get a pass.