Here's how the big boys would handle it...the Bama's, Ohio State's, even the Notre Dame's (who actually had a pretty nasty on-campus rape case a few years ago.) Like it or not, here's how it's done.
Have a conversation with the young lady and determine what it will take to make it worth her while to not press charges.
No charges filed, no reason not to honor his LOI.
Bring the young man to campus and enroll him in a "fitness" program to help him understand why this type of behavior is unacceptable, an embarrassment to the program, and grounds for dismissal going forward.
Suspend him for any nonconference games where he isn't needed for a win.
It's sad and nobody likes it, but that's how you do it.
Have a conversation with the young lady and determine what it will take to make it worth her while to not press charges.
No charges filed, no reason not to honor his LOI.
Bring the young man to campus and enroll him in a "fitness" program to help him understand why this type of behavior is unacceptable, an embarrassment to the program, and grounds for dismissal going forward.
Suspend him for any nonconference games where he isn't needed for a win.
It's sad and nobody likes it, but that's how you do it.