Relatedly, I have just done everything myself over the years. I am thinking perhaps I should get a financial planner on board, but I am loathe to pay someone for something I can figure out on my own. Thoughts on that?
The financial planner will do a few things for you. Mine takes a percent of my retirement but then it's capped out at a certain amount which is 40% of my current portfolio (so 1% of 40% that he manages). The other 60% is in my work retirement accounts. What he says is there isn't enough flexibility in my work accounts to make it fair for him to bill me because he can't do much with that money. He does have a look at it once per quarter to rebalance it which is for free.
There are lot of people that will do a one time plan for a fee. You're paying them a consulting fee for a one time look.
My planner does a lot for me:
1. Has an accountant on staff that does my taxes for free.
2. Helps me work on alternative investments- real estate, business investments, etc.
3. Helped with decision making on 529 for kids. Better to spend it now with a Freshman or wait and save until grad school. Talked a lot about cash flow and such.
4. Stopped investing in 529s. Better to invest into a brokerage account. You can withdraw the principle for free if you need to to pay for college, it's not tied down for education rules, doesn't take a tax hit if you need to withdraw, and if my kids don't go to school or don't need all the money then I can use it for retirement instead.
5. Biggest thing he helped me do is fight fear. That is multifaceted. He told me you're saving too much money. Biggest issue his clients have is that they hoard money and die. He said go travel and experience the world, give it away to charities while alive to bask in the benefit you give to others, etc. Don't take it with you to the grave. No one loves you more based on the size of their inheritance. I keep worrying we won't have enough if one of us gets sick and has to quit early, the market crashes, etc. He's modeled all that for us so I don't need to squirrel away more. It's an extra set of eyes to make sure what you're doing is correct. It's also objective and takes away some of my fear mongering/anxiety.
6. Estate planning, tax reduction, asset protection strategies, etc.
7. Insurance- We are basically self insured with regards to life insurance. We had 20 year term life that expired. He recommended getting enough to pay for everyone's college and no more, so something short term.
8. Finally contacts and networking- He makes a lot of calls to friends to refer business like my estate attorney. It's useful to have someone you can trust because they have a working relationship. He also gets answers for specific problems for free.