Since it seems to be the thing to do today, let me also brag on my kids -- both in their 20s, both working hard and living independently, and both making short-term sacrifices where necessary to set themselves up for long-term goals. They understand that building a life sometimes requires grinding through an unglamorous season. But they also know their value, and they’re smart enough not to confuse needless suffering with character-building.
But let me also say this: Almost nobody of any age is going to be happy with a cut in pay, especially a big one. It’s a lot easier to demonstrate “loyalty” and “longevity” when your compensation stays consistent, or climbs upward. I’m not saying that I have a problem with Iowa if they did, indeed, offer Addie less money. Quite the opposite; it seems completely appropriate. But I can also understand the instinct to look elsewhere if your compensation is trending downward. That’s not a 20-year-old thing -- that’s a human nature thing. The same instinct would apply whether you’re 20, 40, 60, or 80.
Say what you will about young people today, but in a lot of ways, they’re better than older generations at protecting their work-life balance, understanding their value, and refusing to let themselves be exploited by their employers. Sure, that mindset can sometimes show up in less flattering ways. But overall, I think it’s a positive trait. When that perspective is paired with a strong work ethic, it tends to produce not only high-quality workers, but also high-quality people and high-quality lives.