OT: Anyone else think Rutgers is absurdly expensive?

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My first job out of Rutgers in late 1990s was in the engineering department of a big pharma company. Starting pay was mid $40s then. That was a great entry level salary at the time, second to Wall Street and tech but with much better hours. Most of my female colleagues who were smart and supposedly are handier with money than men, spent it all at Short Hills mall. I saved it and owned my first home at 26 - in Millburn ironically.
 
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RUskoolie

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So you shouldn't have gone to RU then?

Four extra years of doing what you do would have you even farther ahead, no?

And I guess it goes without saying that if you have kids, they aren't going to college but straight into launching a business. Heck, maybe even skip those last months of HS once they're 18.
You are getting off track. I simply said that getting kids into the trades is a better use of money than spending 100k for them to major in something outside of STEM. Even business I would argue you can hire a top tier business coach, buy books and not need to spend 100k.

College helps some kids grow up and find out what they like, but a lot of majors are not worth it.

Oh and your last point? I am on record with many people, if at 18 either one of my kids turns to me and says Dad I want to open a restaurant or a business that sells XYZ I need 100k and I am not going to college I will 100% write that check.
 
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You are getting off track. I simply said that getting kids into the trades is a better use of money than spending 100k for them to major in something outside of STEM. Even business I would argue you can hire a top tier business coach, buy books and not need to spend 100k.

College helps some kids grow up and find out what they like, but a lot of majors are not worth it.

Oh and your last point? I am on record with many people, if at 18 either one of my kids turns to me and says Dad I want to open a restaurant or a business that sells XYZ I need 100k and I am not going to college I will 100% write that check.
Kid a few doors down from me went to a fancy parochial school for HS and then to some expensive private college for a year and dropped out. Mother, who worked at a large network, sheepishly told me he was working in a cabinet shop and wanted to learn that trade. When I told her he made an excellent choice and she should support him in that goal, she looked at me like I was crazy. I think she was expecting because I went to law school I would say something different. Nope. College is not for everyone. If you don't have a plan and/or a profession lined up, fuggetaboutit. It's a waste of time and money, unless you get into an Ivy and get connected to the right people.
 

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Please point us to an article or video of these bricklayer robots.

AI will diminish and or eliminate a lot of lower roles in corporations and offices. I'm seeing multiple people on X saying that are using Claude for developing a retirement investing strategy that is better than a financial advisor.

Read a great NYT article from last Sunday on the future of coding. AI agents can write basic code faster and better than junior programmers. Now mid level and senior coders spend their days interacting with AI agents to direct them on what to write code for. My kid who is a software engineer for a major software company spends the day doing this instead of grinding out code.

We have been using AI tools to supplant some work done by paralegals.

Funny side light of working with AI agents - they respond better and quicker if you are a bit rude to them and scold them when they don't give you what you want.

If there is a point in any of thisz, those that adapt to the changing nature of work and leverage AI will succeed.
Wait til those robots get arrested in Madison Borough for using gas pack blowers
 

Knight Shift

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Wait til those robots get arrested in Madison Borough for using gas pack blowers
Wait until the State figures out they are going to lose income tax. It was like their push for electric cars--yay, all new cars must be electric by 2035. Until they figured out that electric cars don't pay gas tax. So they started taxing electric cars an additional $250 when they renew their registration.

Can robots be taxed? You can bet they will figure out a way to do that!
 

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State support for Rutgers has been rising. The decline in 2026 state-paid fringe appears to be made up by growth in "other sources revenue" though the budget doesn't say whether this other sources revenue comes from the state.

The governor's budget features a 10.2% increase for senior public colleges and universities in 2027.

Here are recent stats.

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Interesting stats - fringe benefits paid by the state would include stuff like the employers social security, unemployment share, health insurance - seems odd that this would go down. I obviously don’t know any details on current budgeting. The important stat is what % of the total expense comes from the state.
 

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Please point us to an article or video of these bricklayer robots.

AI will diminish and or eliminate a lot of lower roles in corporations and offices. I'm seeing multiple people on X saying that are using Claude for developing a retirement investing strategy that is better than a financial advisor.

Read a great NYT article from last Sunday on the future of coding. AI agents can write basic code faster and better than junior programmers. Now mid level and senior coders spend their days interacting with AI agents to direct them on what to write code for. My kid who is a software engineer for a major software company spends the day doing this instead of grinding out code.

We have been using AI tools to supplant some work done by paralegals.

Funny side light of working with AI agents - they respond better and quicker if you are a bit rude to them and scold them when they don't give you what you want.

If there is a point in any of thisz, those that adapt to the changing nature of work and leverage AI will succeed.
Here's a video of Sam the robomason building a wall.

Agreed that AI is already beginning to have a significant impact on white collar jobs but outside tech it appears to be contained to mostly hiring freezes for now. Seems to me ten years from now the only thing any of us will be doing is running a team of AI agents.
 

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So, it sounds like many of you are saying we’re looking at a massive wipeout of white-collar jobs. If that actually happens, the 'pain' isn't just going to be for the people getting laid off, it’s going to hit everyone. We’re talking about a hit to the US economy so big it’d basically be 1929 all over again. If that much middle-class spending power disappears, the whole system goes in the toilet. So being a plumber or electrician is unlikely to save most people either. People sree likely going to use Gemini or Chatgpt to help with their plumbing or electrical issues because they can't afford one.

If AI is as impactful as some people are saying is going to be, the entire US economy and middle class is going to have to be reimagine.
To quote Konstantin Kisin, in a world where AI and robots do all the work, nobody else has a job and all the wealth flows to the 50 or so people that own the AI and robots, I am a huge proponent of wealth redistribution. At bayonet point if necessary.
 

Jtung230

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this is interesting to see the views and personal experiences. I have hired many people in my career and while I've got, what I believe to be the best RU kids I've seen working for me, the best and most prepared kids I've come across are from Northeastern, MIT, Purdue, A&M, Baruch, and UF. All those kids are smart, hard working, think outside the box, have drive and just do well. I get requests from 3 universities I'm engaged with for help to place graduates (full time and internships) and grill them nicely but I do grill them. The schools I mentioned, hands down pump out kids that are ready to roll.

I agree with @RUskoolie here the most and see, share, and view things very similar. The world is changing, concerns me greatly with my kids and think the current generation is wefully unprepared. Parenting matters, many suck at it

When I taught at Rutgers Graduate Business School, I taught them how to think and to forget the bs in the books. Every single kid that I spoke to loved the class and that approach and many reached out to me years later to express the same as something came up in their professional careers. Practical application and persistence matters far more than the guy behind the syllabus with the PhD. Head of the finance department wanted me to have them build a working model for prepayments on asset backed securities....I LOL'd at him
My 1st task on the trading desk was to replicate Bloomberg BC35 model In excel.
 
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I know a few private equity guys that are history majors. They did get those degrees from Ivy League schools.
Was going to respond with something very similar. Some of my best colleagues/interns came from schools mentioned above. Some of my worst came from the IVY. Most were very smart and weren’t afraid to tell you. They knew theory and had tremendous book smarts. But they had zero feel and ability to application skills. They knew if it didn’t work they could always call in their connections to the PE-VC guys. Hahahah
 

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You are getting off track. I simply said that getting kids into the trades is a better use of money than spending 100k for them to major in something outside of STEM. Even business I would argue you can hire a top tier business coach, buy books and not need to spend 100k.

College helps some kids grow up and find out what they like, but a lot of majors are not worth it.
Almost any major that ends with the word "studies" is completely worthless.
 
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Rutgers Chris

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So, it sounds like many of you are saying we’re looking at a massive wipeout of white-collar jobs. If that actually happens, the 'pain' isn't just going to be for the people getting laid off, it’s going to hit everyone. We’re talking about a hit to the US economy so big it’d basically be 1929 all over again. If that much middle-class spending power disappears, the whole system goes in the toilet. So being a plumber or electrician is unlikely to save most people either. People sree likely going to use Gemini or Chatgpt to help with their plumbing or electrical issues because they can't afford one.

If AI is as impactful as some people are saying is going to be, the entire US economy and middle class is going to have to be reimagine.
 

RUDiddy777

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Let them learn a trade. They will make 50k at 19 years old, 100k by 25 and have their own company by 28.

Or they can go in the hole 100k, major in something useless, work a corporate job and complain in their 20s how hard life is.

Son is heading off to college for engineering and if he changed his mind and said he’d rather be an electrician, I’d be just as happy for him. With AI, I’m not even sure what the job market looks like in 5-10 years - but plumbers and electricians will always be needed.
 

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My sons are 9 and 11. I am really hoping something changes in the next 7 years to either make college more affordable or make it less necessary. I would absoolutely love it if they decided to pursue a trade, but I will support any decision that makes them happy. If they want college, I guess we'll figure it out. Of course, I'm fairly sure one will go to Harvard for free and one will play baseball at Vanderbilt on a full scholarship. Duh.
 

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Son is heading off to college for engineering and if he changed his mind and said he’d rather be an electrician, I’d be just as happy for him. With AI, I’m not even sure what the job market looks like in 5-10 years - but plumbers and electricians will always be needed.
Until the robots come. :)
 

Rutgers Chris

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My sons are 9 and 11. I am really hoping something changes in the next 7 years to either make college more affordable or make it less necessary. I would absoolutely love it if they decided to pursue a trade, but I will support any decision that makes them happy. If they want college, I guess we'll figure it out. Of course, I'm fairly sure one will go to Harvard for free and one will play baseball at Vanderbilt on a full scholarship. Duh.
My oldest is 15. I’ve thought the same way as you all along, that something has to change cost wise. Looks like time will run out for me. Fingers crossed for you
 

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To quote Konstantin Kisin, in a world where AI and robots do all the work, nobody else has a job and all the wealth flows to the 50 or so people that own the AI and robots, I am a huge proponent of wealth redistribution. At bayonet point if necessary.

So who is the market for all the work (and products) that AI and robots create if only 50 or so people are the owners and nobody has jobs?
 
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newell138

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You probably majored in some thing worthwhile. I did not. Thankfully, my work ethic Pulled me out of the hole or I would’ve been like one of the many people with a useless college degree in a useless job.
Same here
 

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100% agree. Where I work these engineers coming out of all these BIG schools, likely mired in debt are only making about $50k to start. Granted they are getting a pension and 5 weeks vacation but it’s gonna take awhile to pay that loan off. Like yourself I know a few guys in the trades who own their own businesses and are killing it in their low 30s
Pensions aren't sticking around much longer, and if your company has one, chances are it's been substantially modified for new employees so it's nowhere close to how valuable yours is.
 

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Trades in the 2020s will be the "learn to code" in the 2010s. People will rush to do them, get weeded out because they physically cant hack the labor and the ones who stick around will see their jobs outsourced in a decade. I've seen this movie before.
It’s funny that you think so little about what people in the trades do that you think they can be outsourced.

The important distinction is that I am talking about the skilled trades. Things like being a carpenter, plumber or electrician who does custom work, not the lightly trained crew building houses and decks who are performing repetitive tasks over and over and might as well be working on an assembly line.

A lot of kids who are good with their hands got suckered into attending college and taking on debt and have a much worse career path than if they had spent those years going through being a journeyman and apprentice.
 

Jtung230

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I know 2 kids going to the trade school. Both are from blue collar families. I’m willing to bet that most of you will send your kids to college. Your kids are not going to pick trade school over college.
 
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RUskoolie

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I know 2 kids going to the trade school. Both are from blue collar families. I’m willing to bet that most of you will send your kids to college. Your kids are not going to pick trade school over college.
A lot of this is ego driven by parents. They want to be able to brag that they sent their kid to some elitist private school in New England. I don't get it but I am not there yet either.

I have always been contrarian though. You follow the crowd you end up like all of them and that's partly why I have been very successful in my life so far.
 

newell138

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It’s funny that you think so little about what people in the trades do that you think they can be outsourced.

The important distinction is that I am talking about the skilled trades. Things like being a carpenter, plumber or electrician who does custom work, not the lightly trained crew building houses and decks who are performing repetitive tasks over and over and might as well be working on an assembly line.

A lot of kids who are good with their hands got suckered into attending college and taking on debt and have a much worse career path than if they had spent those years going through being a journeyman and apprentice.

A lot of this is ego driven by parents. They want to be able to brag that they sent their kid to some elitist private school in New England. I don't get it but I am not there yet either.

I have always been contrarian though. You follow the crowd you end up like all of them and that's partly why I have been very successful in my life so far.

I'll admit this was me with my oldest daughter, we kind of pushed her to college because thats what everyone does and the school guidance counselors were also guilty of this as it looks good for the HS. She was offered $$ to row so we went that route even though deep down inside it wasn't for her. She rowed in the NCAA's as a freshman and was offered a job as an RA for her sophomore year. A few weeks before school started she told us she wasn't going back and we were surprised when she then followed that up with, I want to be a realtor. Fast forward 12 years and she has doubled her income every year and made 7 figures last year, and she couldn't be happier. Advice for parents with HS kids, talk to them about what they want to do and don't assume that college is the only option or even the best option.
 
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Jtung230

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A lot of this is ego driven by parents. They want to be able to brag that they sent their kid to some elitist private school in New England. I don't get it but I am not there yet either.

I have always been contrarian though. You follow the crowd you end up like all of them and that's partly why I have been very successful in my life so far.
I thought we were talking about parents sending kids that shouldn’t be going to college. If your kid can get into an elite private school in the NE, they earned the right to go to college.
 

Jtung230

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I'll admit this was me with my oldest daughter, we kind of pushed her to college because thats what everyone does and the school guidance counselors were also guilty of this as it looks good for the HS. She was offered $$ to row so we went that route even though deep down inside it wasn't for her. She rowed in the NCAA's as a freshman and was offered a job as an RA for her sophomore year. A few weeks before school started she told us she wasn't going back and we were surprised when she then followed that up with, I want to be a realtor. Fast forward 15 years and she has doubled her income every year and made 7 figures last year, and she couldn't be happier. Advice for parents with HS kids, talk to them about what they want to do and don't assume that college is the only option or even the best option.
That’s ballsy move to become a realtor in 2011. Congrats to her.
 
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A lot of this is ego driven by parents. They want to be able to brag that they sent their kid to some elitist private school in New England. I don't get it but I am not there yet either.

I have always been contrarian though. You follow the crowd you end up like all of them and that's partly why I have been very successful in my life so far.
Have seen this over and over. Parents living in towns with fantastic public schools sending their kids to elite private schools K-12, spending over $500K for that alone, then to elite private colleges. In several cases, the kids are unhappy with their chosen school/major and either drop out or don't pursue a job in their chosen field after college. Many attorneys go this route, chasing the jobs at the huge prestigious law firms that offer great starting salaries but no realistic path to partnership. They toil away for 10 plus years working insane hours and never make partner, where the real money is at. Meanwhile, those that took a chance and opened their own small-medium sized firms live much happier/more balanced lives having a lot more freedom and making great money to boot. But that involves taking a chance and potentially "failing".
 

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You are getting off track. I simply said that getting kids into the trades is a better use of money than spending 100k for them to major in something outside of STEM. Even business I would argue you can hire a top tier business coach, buy books and not need to spend 100k.

College helps some kids grow up and find out what they like, but a lot of majors are not worth it.

Oh and your last point? I am on record with many people, if at 18 either one of my kids turns to me and says Dad I want to open a restaurant or a business that sells XYZ I need 100k and I am not going to college I will 100% write that check.
If my 18 year old told me they wanted to open a restaurant I would give them a good talking to and no way would I give them any money. Most restaurants fail, and I highly doubt they have the knowledge to run one at that age. Same thing with a business - get into a mentorship situation and learn your trade - most 18 year olds are not going to understand the ins and outs. I get your point about college potentially being a waste, but not investing the $ I would have spent on college blindly for my 18 year old to go start a business without any experience. I would tell him I will invest him once he reaches certain benchmarks and can present a solid business plan.
 

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If my 18 year old told me they wanted to open a restaurant I would give them a good talking to and no way would I give them any money. Most restaurants fail, and I highly doubt they have the knowledge to run one at that age. Same thing with a business - get into a mentorship situation and learn your trade - most 18 year olds are not going to understand the ins and outs. I get your point about college potentially being a waste, but not investing the $ I would have spent on college blindly for my 18 year old to go start a business without any experience. I would tell him I will invest him once he reaches certain benchmarks and can present a solid business plan.
Apprenticeships are great, whether it is a formal apprenticeship training program, or just getting experience in a restaurant, as a tradesperson (electrician, plumber, carpenter, HVAC, steelworker, mason, etc, etc.). This gives a young person a chance to figure out what is their best fit.
 
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If my 18 year old told me they wanted to open a restaurant I would give them a good talking to and no way would I give them any money. Most restaurants fail, and I highly doubt they have the knowledge to run one at that age. Same thing with a business - get into a mentorship situation and learn your trade - most 18 year olds are not going to understand the ins and outs. I get your point about college potentially being a waste, but not investing the $ I would have spent on college blindly for my 18 year old to go start a business without any experience. I would tell him I will invest him once he reaches certain benchmarks and can present a solid business plan.
+1
The most valuable aspect of college is not the education, it's the time you get as a newly minted "adult" to figure stuff out. Can this be done some other way that is cheaper? Probably, but not in all cases.
 
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Trades aren’t going to be where you want to go. Supply & demand mechanics are skewed heavily towards those who work in trades right now. That’s going to drastically change soon.

Where you want to be is health care of any kind. We’re not going to be hitting the supply & demand curve there any time soon.
 

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Look at what the immigrants do - they start labor businesses on a shoestring and broken English. Cut grass, paint houses, build masonry walls, roofing etc. Some trades you dont even need a truck or helper. Most immigrants had no insurances, licenses etc. People start out working for people they know and build-up. Youtube is full of instructional stuff and also some trade specific forums and reddit. The trades are one area where its possible to work for yourself right away. You might be akin to a gig worker at first but if people are sincere about doing good work potential clients pick-up on it and give more work and tell their friends. If a kid moves a trade is like a bank account they can take anywhere
 

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Most everyone that post that attended Rutgers appears to be successful. In addition, I noticed that many post on the board that their kids got into college normally Rutgers or even more elite. I don’t see anyone mentioning their kids going into a trade. All my relatives went to college and were successful and I know their kids are going to college. The kids are way smarter than the parents in school. It definitely will be harder to know what to major in the future with AI taking jobs.
 

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Most everyone that post that attended Rutgers appears to be successful. In addition, I noticed that many post on the board that their kids got into college normally Rutgers or even more elite. I don’t see anyone mentioning their kids going into a trade. All my relatives went to college and were successful and I know their kids are going to college. The kids are way smarter than the parents in school. It definitely will be harder to know what to major in the future with AI taking jobs.
While true 4 years of college also didn’t cost the same as a house back then. 1985 wasn’t that long ago when I graduated and if I recall it was about 6K all in per year. Tuition, room and board
 
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While true 4 years of college also didn’t cost the same as a house back then. 1985 wasn’t that long ago when I graduated and if I recall it was about 6K all in per year. Tuition, room and board
I think that if you’re smart, motivated and socially can deal or work with others, you will be successful if you go to college or not. Yes, college cost more but smart people find ways to attend without having huge student loans. My family members will normally save enough to pay for their kids college. They don’t wait till they are in high school and find they don’t have enough saved. We usually aren't athletic enough or smart enough to get scholarships or grants. However, I would be surprised the next generation don't get scholarships. One of my nephews just sold his company to Apple this year, they won the Apple innovative award in 2025.
 
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I know 2 kids going to the trade school. Both are from blue collar families. I’m willing to bet that most of you will send your kids to college. Your kids are not going to pick trade school over college.
Not true IMO. I work with a few young kids who recently decided not to go to college and pursue a trade school. They are apprentices now (IBEW) and doing great. By age 23 - 24 they will be making well into 6 figures.
 

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While true 4 years of college also didn’t cost the same as a house back then. 1985 wasn’t that long ago when I graduated and if I recall it was about 6K all in per year. Tuition, room and board
Several years after you, but recall all in was $6K-7.5K per year. Graduated with about $6K in debt, ate Ramen noodles for months to pay off the loans because debts scared the crap out of me.

As to your statement about cost of a house. Taking $7.5K per year, that is $30,000 for 4 years. An AI search says in 1985 an average house in NJ cost $90,000–$110,000. So 4 years was 25-33% the cost of a house.

Rutgers is now nominally $35K per year for in state tuition, room, board and fees. That's $140K for 4 years. The same AI search said an average house house in the same local (South Monmouth- Howell or Wall) would cost about $735K (seems actually low). Tuition is about 20% the cost of an average house now.

While tuition increased by about 4.5 times over about 40 years, housing costs have increased by 6-7 times.

Seems cost of vehicles have increased by about 3.5-4.5 times 1985 costs.