No doubt. That is the absolute hardest thing about coaching. Much like parenting, you want the absolute best for them and when something doesn't go right it often breaks you harder than them. It is very hard not to feel like you let them down in some way and when you can't pinpoint the how or why, it can drive you absolutely crazy.I honestly think Tom wants his wrestlers to win worse than the wrestler sometimes. Crushing defeats and disappointing wrestling by his guys really takes a toll on him I think. He is extremely vested in his guys.