I have been having colonoscopies for many, many years. I go back to see my doctor on March 10 to arrange a new colonoscopy. I'm no longer young, But I'm not worried about death. Now I don't relish leaving my wife. But she can take care of herself, has lots of friends and is very involved with the Daughters of the American Revolution and is a state officer with that organization that keeps her very busy. Now, I'd rather not die of cancer. I think I'd rather die of alzheimers. But that would not be a pleasant way to go either, especially for the family.
Am I scared of dying? No. Of course when my time comes, I could be shaking like crazy with fear.

Put family members who have died aside. I've seen a lot of friends I grew up with die. Girls that I knew from elementary school to college have died. The first girl I had a crush on in elementary school, who lived probably only a half mile from me to where I walked to her house, died at the age of only 64. I don't like losing male friends who have died. But when girls die whom I knew, liked and grew up with, those really hurt. While I look forward to a reunion with family and friends who are gone, I'd prefer to delay the inevitable.
My attitude is that death is not something to be feared even though getting older can be a scary business. But it should be accepted as a natural part of life. There is not going to be anything in the dark that's not already in the light. Our fears are the product of our own minds. We should not be afraid of the unknown. We need to confront our fears and come to terms with our own mortality. I don't believe the end of life brings with it all sorts of horrors. Death just helps us all move on to the next phase of existence.