I really don't enjoy the whole you're wrong - no, you're wrong back and forth that this thread has devolved into. I would much rather try to find some understanding, if not common ground. I guess I feel uncomfortable with the cognitive dissonance between feeling forced to dislike people that have different political opinions than me and the fact that I genuinely like many of you from other interactions on these boards. Thus, I believe it can't be as simple as one side good, the other side bad. I think we have been trained by decades of for-profit media and selfish politicians to oppose each other at all times. And now social media algorithms have turned that up to 11!! In reality, I bet there are lots of in between spaces where we could meet if we weren't so conditioned against that.
This conversation is a great example of two sides talking right past each other, where nothing gets done and we get worse as a nation. As one who has staked myself out on the left side of this equation, I will just say this to my right-leaning friends. I bet there are things about your policy stances that you could convince me of the logic such that, while it won't make me a Republican, will allow me to find spaces for compromise. That was my favorite part of the old Rant board. However, one thing you have to understand is that Donald Trump has redefined the whole discussion. For the first time that I can remember, we have a President who I truly believe actively dislikes me and wants to see me suffer because I don't agree with him and didn't want him to win. I don't remember ever sensing that kind of dynamic with Biden or Obama or George W. I saw policy differences, including some I thought were dumb or dangerous. But I never felt like George W. would take delight in trying to make my life worse on purpose. Trump is uniquely dangerous in that way and it damages us all, because it turns up the temperature on this insistence that we all see each other as enemies.
The fact that this thread has turned into the same ol' political back and forth actually makes me realize it is just the method that is wrong and not the people. I don't hate you guys, even though some of the statements on here are frustrating and even infuriating. So, if we stop letting the Trumps of the world tell us we need to hate each other, then maybe we start figuring some things out.