I actually do have that handle on ignore. First they killed strippers, then nonstop about religion, then nonstop about vaccines, etc. It's too much attention whoring. Away they went
I used to have a great uncle who only had a thumb and index finger. Could still hold a beer can like a SOB. Lost them in a corn auger. Sorry for assuming. Hopefully there is still a finger or two pointing back at you 👉
Any evidence they were doing it as a choice? You started the claim and want us prove you're wrong. Don't say the quiet part out loud if you don't expect some pushback from others. Carry on.