Your kids do not have to have an account on Social Media to be susceptible or affected by it.
The rest of your post, what I think your trying to say is being gay, Trans, different, pronoun, etc... doesn't guarantee you preferential treatment and I also agree with that as well.
Yup. It's how I was raised. Especially since I am the youngest of 6 boys so I don't disagree with your take. I think you are missing the point though. Things are different now with social media, media in general, values, etc...
I think the original point was referring to the kids that for...
I completely get it. It is absolutely unacceptable and I have the utmost sympathy, and empathy for those that have to endure that ********. I also feel the same way for the overweight, small, different, shy, socially awkward kids that get bullied as well.